Confidence issue........?!


Question: Confidence issue!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!?
For the past couple of years I became conscious of the way I act as it came of as full of myself and stuff!. It kinda as made me have little or no belief in myself and low self esteem because of being so arrogant, now i have been acting like someone with no confidence and i dont know the real me!. I dont know how to be me and to have confidence!. Any help, thank you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi Mercedes, It is a real Challenge to develop as a person, because we don't live in a vacuum, we are always interacting with others!. Every person has a 'persona'!. A persona is the image we put on in the world!. And that persona can change characteristics depending on the situation or the people we are around!. Just remember it is not a pose or a misrepresentation!. http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Persona#The!.!.!.

Right now, you seem to be doing some fine tuning, so in that light you can chose any number of ways to be, I hope that you chose the stratagies and image that will benefit you the most in the world!. People will unconsciously treat you a certain way, for better or for worse, depending on the strategy you chose!.

I hope that you have time to take a peek at some body language tips, because good body language is your strongest ally as you go through life!.

http://www!.aquariuscoaching!.co!.uk/blog/2!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You seem to worry about what other people think about you too much, which is making you feel nervous!.

Relax honey!

What you think about things is always valid as its your opinion, its just the way you put it across that maybe the problem!.

You are probably a very sensitive person, so you protect yourself - which may have come across as aggressive ect, now that has been challenged you now feel vunerable/ misunderstood!.

To be yourself, you need to relax and try to understand your emotions!.
So, when you need to voice an opinion - choose the right words!
And when you know you look good, be happy! Then other people will warm to you!.

We all go through this, your question is very humble and so i think people will help you!!

You'll be ok! Just believe that!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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