Can anyone help me with this issues I have?!


Question: Can anyone help me with this issues I have!?
When I was 14, now I am 16, there was this girl in school that had a crush on me, she was always telling me that I had a big cock and that she wanted to tasted it and all of that stuff!. She was a fat gross looking girl and I didn't like her, she was very mean with people too!. As she noticed that I ignored her she began calling me "GAY", and I hate that, 24-7 I was hearing "your gay"!. Now that I changed schools, now that I am in high school, nobody calls me gay but I am afraid that they are talking behind my back calling me gay!. I know that is not truth but Iam afraid they do so!. I always overtry to act "muy macho" infront of people and I know that I dont have to because I am not gay but I am afraid!. What can I do to overcome this and bringback my confidence!?

Also I am afraid to talk to the girl I like it had changed my life completely Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Try really hard to ignore what that girl did to your life, especially now that you have a chance at a new start in a new school!. Ask a girl out and go to the movies or the park!. It doesn't even have to be a girl your crazy about, just so you get comfortable with the idea of going out with girls and move on with your life!.
That girl that hurt you is hurting more than you know, that is why she tried to hurt you!. Maybe that will help you move beyond what she did!.
Go get 'em tiger!Www@Answer-Health@Com

People always called me gay like when i was explaining something they would just flat out say, your gay!. Just get with some friends and hang out!. Build your confidence just by being around people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You gotta realize, you're not what people say you are, and nobody cares about what happened 2 years ago!.

Chill out and grow a pair!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This other girl sounds like a loser!

Act yourself!. Don't be macho if you aren't naturally!. Sorry I couldn't be much more help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunately you are never going to know what people are saying behind your back and that's just tough!. But if you don't know it can't hurt you!. You are what you are and what other people say shouldn't make a difference - YOU know you're not gay so what should it matter what they think!. If they're the kind of people to say things like that then they shouldn't be the kind of people that opinions matter to you!.
Just be happy and stop worrying =] hang out with people that know who you really are and don't make **** up or listen to rumours!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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