Tired of all the broke-di(k bull-shyters in my life!! Any suggestions?!
Question: Tired of all the broke-di(k bull-shyters in my life!! Any suggestions!?
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So, I can't take it anymore!. All I want to do is kick and scream and key cars and cuss these DA people out!. What is their problem!? What the heck should I do!? The people in my life are no good backstabbing liers and I seriously want to move far far far away when I graduate!.
For starters, I am a very nice girl who was brought up in a loving home and my a$$ was beat every time I screwed up!. Because of the way my parents raised me, I have become a compassionate woman for everyone around me!. I forgive very easily and try to make things right, but I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!
I'm intelligent, beautiful, and have a great sense of humor, but my main concern for today is my "so called best friend"!. HeII, we grew up together for God's sake and she treats me like doo doo!. I have always been there for her and possessed an unconditional love for her through thick and thin!. Yet, in the past two years she has been hanging around with the wrong people and neglects to see it!. I finally realized a couple of months ago what a bytch she is!. It's like any favor she would need I would spring to immediate action!. But, the one GD time I needed a ride to class cause I was going to be late (couple months ago) she couldn't give me a ride because she was asleep!. Yet I still went above and beyond for her because she is like a sister to me!. Wel,, I finally realized that she was all fake and rarely talk to her anymore!. She lives in a diff!. town than me now!.
We had this bytch for a roomate who is not cool by any means and who is loud and abnoxious!. My bf would talk shyt about her to me behind her back and then I alsways found it funny that she would be her friend the next day!. Recently our ex roomate told her she wasnt going to pay her the money she owed her and my bf became ticked and of course told me all about it!. Then the 2 bytches are hanging out again!.!.!.I just dont understand that!! Why talk crap about someone and then party with themm!?!?!
This isn't even the half of them!.!.!.I could go on and on about the way my bf has used me!. Anyways, she got fake tatas and you know how the heII I found out!?!! Facebk!. BC my bf had a pic of our ex roomate engaging in a photo beside them!. WTF!. What's histarical ab this is that the dumb bytch told her that she was flat chested and she needed them when we lived together and now the two were spotted celebrating them!. I just donnnnnt get it!.
WHAT DO YOU THINK!? AND WHY THE HECK DO PPL TREAT ME LIKE THIS!? WHAT HAPPENED TO THE SOUTHERN VALUES THAT I WAS RAISED WITH AND WHY DO I FEEL ALONE IN THIS WORLD!?!?!?
On another note, I guess I'm just wondering why and what to do ab the situation!. Even men I try to date are a$$holes and aren't ever good to me (and it isnt cause i gave it up) I mean am I too vulnerable!?
Put yourself in my shoes!. What would you do!? Personally I wanna move far away and start a new life!. Can't take it anymore!. I just want to crawl up in a corner and stay there and not talk to anyone cause of the shyt i been through!. I haven't been on a date in months!!! What the heck is wrong with me!?!? Imagine that you were me and let me know what you would do!.
It's like, you know, we freakin grew up 2gether!. the least she could have done was tell me she was going to get it done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, I can't take it anymore!. All I want to do is kick and scream and key cars and cuss these DA people out!. What is their problem!? What the heck should I do!? The people in my life are no good backstabbing liers and I seriously want to move far far far away when I graduate!.
For starters, I am a very nice girl who was brought up in a loving home and my a$$ was beat every time I screwed up!. Because of the way my parents raised me, I have become a compassionate woman for everyone around me!. I forgive very easily and try to make things right, but I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!
I'm intelligent, beautiful, and have a great sense of humor, but my main concern for today is my "so called best friend"!. HeII, we grew up together for God's sake and she treats me like doo doo!. I have always been there for her and possessed an unconditional love for her through thick and thin!. Yet, in the past two years she has been hanging around with the wrong people and neglects to see it!. I finally realized a couple of months ago what a bytch she is!. It's like any favor she would need I would spring to immediate action!. But, the one GD time I needed a ride to class cause I was going to be late (couple months ago) she couldn't give me a ride because she was asleep!. Yet I still went above and beyond for her because she is like a sister to me!. Wel,, I finally realized that she was all fake and rarely talk to her anymore!. She lives in a diff!. town than me now!.
We had this bytch for a roomate who is not cool by any means and who is loud and abnoxious!. My bf would talk shyt about her to me behind her back and then I alsways found it funny that she would be her friend the next day!. Recently our ex roomate told her she wasnt going to pay her the money she owed her and my bf became ticked and of course told me all about it!. Then the 2 bytches are hanging out again!.!.!.I just dont understand that!! Why talk crap about someone and then party with themm!?!?!
This isn't even the half of them!.!.!.I could go on and on about the way my bf has used me!. Anyways, she got fake tatas and you know how the heII I found out!?!! Facebk!. BC my bf had a pic of our ex roomate engaging in a photo beside them!. WTF!. What's histarical ab this is that the dumb bytch told her that she was flat chested and she needed them when we lived together and now the two were spotted celebrating them!. I just donnnnnt get it!.
WHAT DO YOU THINK!? AND WHY THE HECK DO PPL TREAT ME LIKE THIS!? WHAT HAPPENED TO THE SOUTHERN VALUES THAT I WAS RAISED WITH AND WHY DO I FEEL ALONE IN THIS WORLD!?!?!?
On another note, I guess I'm just wondering why and what to do ab the situation!. Even men I try to date are a$$holes and aren't ever good to me (and it isnt cause i gave it up) I mean am I too vulnerable!?
Put yourself in my shoes!. What would you do!? Personally I wanna move far away and start a new life!. Can't take it anymore!. I just want to crawl up in a corner and stay there and not talk to anyone cause of the shyt i been through!. I haven't been on a date in months!!! What the heck is wrong with me!?!? Imagine that you were me and let me know what you would do!.
It's like, you know, we freakin grew up 2gether!. the least she could have done was tell me she was going to get it done!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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this is what i would do if i were you!.!. GET THE HELL OUTTA ALABAMA! or whatever southern bullcrap state you're in!. start a new life somewhere else with new people, new experiences, and a new environment!. come here to California, where the NORMAL people are!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I feel your pain!.!.!.your stuck with a bunch of morons!.!.!.!.!.you seem pretty intelligent and caring!.!.!.why don't you move to a new state!?!.!.!.I was in the South!.!.!.I liked it!.!.!.but some people are nitwits!.!.!.!.maybe you can go to your church and create a new crew!.!.!.don't put out with the next guy you date for like six months!.!.!.!.go to Vegas and blow off some steam if you can!.!.!.
anyways, thanks for the read and good luck to you!.!.!.good people always pull through :)
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anyways, thanks for the read and good luck to you!.!.!.good people always pull through :)
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You teach people how to treat you and in doing that you discover who you are!. I attached some articles for you that may help you view your relationships differently!. My biggest advice to you is don't take things others do personally!.!.!.it is a reflection of themselves and not you!.!.!.Don't take it personally!. You will find that the people that come into your life do for a reason!.!.!.sometimes when that reason is fufilled it is time to move on!. Many people are toxic by nature and you can only change how you react to them!.
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Hey, I'm not sure how old you are but take it from me, somebody who has been through similiar crap, that you just need to cut your ties and move on!. Being in a friendship like the one you are in is unhealthy!. It is a vicious cycle that just keeps circling back!. So, please!.!.!.!.forget about the girl you grew up with and meet new people who have more to them then fakeness!. I'm 38 & I just went through this with a friend who stole $$$ and then lied about it!. When she was confronted she was upset and couldn't believe that I would think that and wanted things to be right between us but then turned around and starting talking sh$t about me to anyone who would listen to her!. Fortunately, some of the people know be better and knew she was just pulling sh$t out of her a$$ but there are also people who are not my friends (rather were friends thru her) who are obviously going to take her side!. I also work with this person & used to live with her!. One day I just decided that it was not healthy to even be around her & her fake friends so I just cut my ties!. Sadly, one of our mutual friends is getting married next year and asked us both to be in the wedding!.!.!.!.I wanted to say no but have to be the bigger person!. Just know that you have a specialness to you!. Not many people go out of their way to constantly help others out with not 'return the favor'!.!.!.!.!.!.Let go, make new friends and you'll see how much happier you will be!Www@Answer-Health@Com
your hot!. really your a straight shooter and that should be what people look for!. i live in texas and southern values have taken a back seat!. i always hold on to people who have been in my life and try to do the same when meeting new people!. you sound pissed and i hope to help if you need!. but like i said you sound like a great person, friend, and girlfriend to whoever you come to love!. keep up the strong bright attitude and you ll continue to growWww@Answer-Health@Com
wow!. that's a whole lot! u should just try to meditate for a while and clear your mind of all thought!. then after that, you should write down a list of all the good things and the bad things that everyone has done in your life!. then you should confront your kinda bf and say "you have been treating me like i'm just some kind of rag doll for a really long time!. i don't like it at all!. if you want me to put up with this, i don't think i can handle being your friend anymore!. i hope you can understand what i feel!."
and walk away!. i had that kind of thing happen to me!. that girl was like "i hate you go away!.!.!.why haven't you been talking to me!?!" over and over and over!!! it was annoying, so i stopped being her friend!. when you say that statement, she'll get really mad for about a week!. and your life will be madness for about a week, but do what i did: have a back up bffl for you when you need her!. she'll always back you up!. if you don't have one, try and make a new friend with the girl in one of your classes!.
hope that helps!Www@Answer-Health@Com
and walk away!. i had that kind of thing happen to me!. that girl was like "i hate you go away!.!.!.why haven't you been talking to me!?!" over and over and over!!! it was annoying, so i stopped being her friend!. when you say that statement, she'll get really mad for about a week!. and your life will be madness for about a week, but do what i did: have a back up bffl for you when you need her!. she'll always back you up!. if you don't have one, try and make a new friend with the girl in one of your classes!.
hope that helps!Www@Answer-Health@Com