Please help - Im stuck in a rut.?!
Question: Please help - Im stuck in a rut!.!?
I just feel like I have nothing to say for myself!. I dont work or go to school I just depend on my dad!. I dont have girlfriends anymore cause they all betrayed me in one way or another!. All I have left is my now ex boyfriend who calls when he feels like it!. I messed our 5 yr relationship up by going to italy!.
Now I have no one but my parents and a little money!.
I live in Michigan and want to move badly and start and new life & work somewhere!.
I could get a degree online!.
Where should I go, What should I do & How can I make new friends when Im so shy!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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hi isabella,u have a case of the poor meees!.u have forgotten one thing u have yourself!.stop depending on others to make u feel good that never works,running away wont fix it either u have the power to turn this thing around from right were your at! one way that works for me is to try to help someone every day,FIND A WAY!!! since it sounds like u have some time volunteer some place maybe a homeless shelter hospital maybe an elderly person u know, helping others getting positive WILL get u noticed youll be surprised how good you feel and i promise good things will start to happenWww@Answer-Health@Com
Start by doing one thing different every day!. Even if it is only for 10 min for the whole day!. Go for a walk, write, read, empower yourself, grow your mind!. If you do well with 10 min move to 20 min a day etc!.!.!.
You don't have to make major life decisions in a time when you are feeling so bad!. Take small steps and they will grow into big ones!. I wish you the best!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't have to make major life decisions in a time when you are feeling so bad!. Take small steps and they will grow into big ones!. I wish you the best!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Look at Dr Phil's website in the "life laws" area and try to read "Life Strategies!." If I had to guess there might be things going on that you aren't admitting or you're acting in some way to cause this to happen!. That's great that you're motivated!. Make a plan and go for it!. Anything you want you can make happen!.
You may have to change your values and behavior to do it!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You may have to change your values and behavior to do it!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh, you should definately consider moving and starting a new life!.
I think it will be refreshing, get a job, it will consume your time and you'll be meeting new people!.
Forget the girls who betrayed you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it will be refreshing, get a job, it will consume your time and you'll be meeting new people!.
Forget the girls who betrayed you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com