Ive made mistakes help?!
Question: Ive made mistakes help!?
Back on spring break, me and my friend were having a sleepover!. She asked me if I wanted to
experiment" I said no continuously, and she pressured me into it!. Im not going to say she put a gun to my head, but I still feel like she pressured me!. I went too far and i just havent been able to forget it since!. Just the thought makes me sick!. Help!? What can I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
experiment" I said no continuously, and she pressured me into it!. Im not going to say she put a gun to my head, but I still feel like she pressured me!. I went too far and i just havent been able to forget it since!. Just the thought makes me sick!. Help!? What can I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
sweetie!.!.!. the reason it is bothering you so much is because you have not forgiven yourself for your own actions!. She may have talked you into doing it but, you made the decision to follow threw!. Now you have to forgive yourself and chalk it up to a learning experience!. It doesn't make you a bad person for experimenting!.!.!. it means your a perfectly normal kid!. We all do things in life we are not proud of but we did them and we have to accept that and let it die!. If you don't do that you will drive yourself crazy!. You can't go back in time and change it so you have no other choice but to accept it and go on!. Does that make sense to you!? You learned a lesson in it and that is you are not into girls!. perfectly normal, but dragging all that guilt around isn't going to help you in anyway!. The only person you have to convince is you!. So let go of it and forget it your going to be just fine! Gentle hugs it is alright!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I believe that everything happens by design!. The good, the bad, and the indifferent!. All events in life happen just the way it's suppose to!. The Universe has been created to an order/design!. You can't have chaos and order existing at the same time, this would a contradiction in logic!. Don't beat up your self, it was meant to be!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
are you still friends with this girl!? and if so have you spoken about it!. i think this may be something you need to talk to a therapist about because although she "didn't put a gun to your head" she still didn't listen when you said no!. maybe you need to talk to her and tell her never again or explain to her that even though it was a long time ago it does make you uncomfortable!. but i believe counseling may be bestWww@Answer-Health@Com
Thanks!. At least you have realized!.
How did you decide that it is a mistake!? Why did you not take it as a right thing in life!? Did some body else tell you!? You have decided on your own that you have committed a mistake because you have done something beyond your genuine consciousness!. I only know self help is best help!.
Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects you!. Never excuse yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
How did you decide that it is a mistake!? Why did you not take it as a right thing in life!? Did some body else tell you!? You have decided on your own that you have committed a mistake because you have done something beyond your genuine consciousness!. I only know self help is best help!.
Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody else expects you!. Never excuse yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Donna C pretty much hit it on the button, we learn through our mistakes and it makes us stronger as a person!. We aren't perfect, we are human!. Just try to think of it as a learning experience and move on the best that you can!. I always try to think of things as, learning to find my way through life!.
good luck
hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
good luck
hang in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
i would talk to my friend and let my feelings be known!.
if it continues to bother you!.!.!. later down the road!.!.!. see a therapist!.
first, talk to your friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if it continues to bother you!.!.!. later down the road!.!.!. see a therapist!.
first, talk to your friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh let it go it was just a one time thing!. you regretted it!. now just put it behind you and add it to experience!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should probably just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and just talk about it with somebody because that usually helps even though it is super awkwardWww@Answer-Health@Com