How do i deal with his death ?!


Question: How do i deal with his death !?
so i lost my friend 9-7-08 he was 28 and died result of a motorcycle accident me and him were so close we were just alike act alike sound alike his sister even said the same its crazy i miss him like crazy and been seeing him getting calls from him that really ain't him or there i see him is this normal with a death of someone close Www@Answer-Health@Com


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As someone who has been knocked off his motorbike twice by out of control car drivers on my (their wrong!) side of the road, bikes are very dangerous, and it was only my helmet, leathers, defensive riding, quick assessment/reflexes, and correct split second decision making which has enabled me to attain my middle age!. Now I no longer ride!.

Something in the following may help, but in your case, you would do well to seek therapy, ASAP: I am very sorry for your loss!. Go to http://www!.mind!.org!.uk/ and type "grief" in the taskbar, and enter!. Call: The Grief Recovery Institute (U!.S!.A!.) 1-800-445-4808, or Hospice (phone book)!. Email jo@samaritans!.org Chatrooms and forums: www!.chatmag!.com/topics/health/grief!.html and http://talkingminds!.15!.forumer!.com/ and http://messageboards!.ivillage!.com/ Other websites: www!.griefnet!.org/ and http://www!.helpguide!.org/ (coping, supporting others, loss of relationship, or pet) and www!.mental-health-abc!.com/ and www!.boblivingstone!.com/!?q=node30 and www!.crusebereavementcare!.org!.uk/ Understand that there are often several stages of grief!.

The stages are: Denial: The initial stage: "It can't be happening!."
Anger: "Why ME!? It's not fair!?!" (either referring to God, oneself, or anybody perceived, rightly or wrongly, as "responsible")
Bargaining: "Just let me live to see my son graduate!."
Depression: "I'm so sad, why bother with anything!?"
Acceptance: "It's going to be OK!."
K



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