Should I overdose or jump into the river?!
Question: Should I overdose or jump into the river!?
47 yrs old, no wife, no kids!. No one depends on me for economic support!. Last girlfriend left in 2003!. Quiet, unassuming, gentle!.!.!. and god awful ugly!. My body is a fortress against establishing emotional intimacy: buck teeth, balding since age 20, stutter, soul crushing migraines!. Cancerous prostate remove at age 42!. Erections not physically possible since, as nerves were cut!. I challenge anyone to say if he/she lived in my shoes they wouldn't end their life within a week!. Make $7!.50/hour cleaning toilets and classrooms at school four nights a week!. No benefits!. Make $8/hr doing inventory two days per wk!. Roughly 150-165 job applications in last two years have resulted in five unsuccessful interviews!. Am not limiting myself to the local area!. One was a nine hr drive, another 11 hrs!. Stutter, lack of degree, precludes teaching!. Who the hay could attend college on my salary anyways!? The concept, the very idea of another holiday season w/o a GF is too much!. My three sisters say dating/marriage is not in the cards!. Advise joining the priesthood!. So, here I am: poor, alone, no job satisfaction!. Which would U pick: OD or river!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I feel for you!. I'm 58, disabled, broke, working part time as a toll collector and my family treats me like sh**t since I can't support them like I use to!. I'm saving up my blood thinners (I'm on coumadin) and when I have enough I'll get some Ambosol or Ora Gel, something to numb my skin, a bottle asprins and a bottle of good Bourbon to wash all the pills down, insert a needle with a hose and let my blood drain out!. Cutting the wrist leaves to much of a mess!. My way the blood will flow out slowly and I'll drift off to a never ending sleep!. Jumping the bridge is to flamboyant, who needs all the onlookers and police, suicide should be a private affair!. OD'ing is messy and could be painfull!. By the way I'm waiting for the Christmas holidays so I can screw my familys holiday season!. They deserved to be treated the way they treat me!. Something else you might think of doing before doing youself in is to get as much cash as you can from your credit cards, take out some loans if you can then live it up before you go, give yourself a big going away party!. Screw the banks like they screw the people!. Take the money and run they catch you, take the money and die, Ha Ha what can they do!. Remember, if you want to do yourself in, screw as many people and institutiuons you can that screwed you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't commit suicide!. Think about your family and friends who love you!. If you say that you don't have any, then I will be your friend!. Also, get a pet- it will liven your life up so much! Even if it's just a fish!
Life IS worth living, see a mental health specialist, they can help you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Life IS worth living, see a mental health specialist, they can help you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh my god
please don't say this
my brother commit ed suicide last year 13 days before christmas
its devastating and extremely selfish
think about othersWww@Answer-Health@Com
please don't say this
my brother commit ed suicide last year 13 days before christmas
its devastating and extremely selfish
think about othersWww@Answer-Health@Com
Neither!. Life's hard, you just gota do your best and things will get better,Www@Answer-Health@Com
My Dear Alan,
It was a testing experience that is given in the question!. I don't know if you believe the axim of KARMA, we believe most!. This theory explains the present life ith a gold plate and silver spoon with everything made ready, or, a life with brickbats and tragedies as of yours!.
Whatever it is, it is only because of our own doings in the palst so many 1000s of lives we had, in diferent bodies and with different names!. The totality of all the past birth experiences is now made into the present birth!. Even if one would like to end this life by poisoning or jumping into river, mind you, he cannot write off all the turmoil of this life, but only add the sin of attempting a suicide, to the past debts and the load to be carried to a new birth will be still heavier!.
So my dear friend suicide is not a solution, and more over it enhances your future sufferings!.
Now if we examne the serial of mishappenings in your life, it explains that most of the bad debt is getting cleared with more problems you are facing and more suffering you have already experiencing!.
Remember, there are at least 10 persons in this world who are suffering worse thn you, with more additional pains and difficulties!. If you come to meet these ten worse sufferers, won't you thak God that you are born better off, compared to these ten!. Similarly each of these ten also have to than God, because at least ten people were suffering worse than each of these ten!. Like that we are always better than so many 1000s and lakhs of people, and as such everyone on this earth will thank God, for what he is now, and continue living with more courage and Trust!.
So if Myself or any other will step into your shoes, we will start living and stop worrying!. Better luck now!. I believe, you will surely will live more happily from now onwards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It was a testing experience that is given in the question!. I don't know if you believe the axim of KARMA, we believe most!. This theory explains the present life ith a gold plate and silver spoon with everything made ready, or, a life with brickbats and tragedies as of yours!.
Whatever it is, it is only because of our own doings in the palst so many 1000s of lives we had, in diferent bodies and with different names!. The totality of all the past birth experiences is now made into the present birth!. Even if one would like to end this life by poisoning or jumping into river, mind you, he cannot write off all the turmoil of this life, but only add the sin of attempting a suicide, to the past debts and the load to be carried to a new birth will be still heavier!.
So my dear friend suicide is not a solution, and more over it enhances your future sufferings!.
Now if we examne the serial of mishappenings in your life, it explains that most of the bad debt is getting cleared with more problems you are facing and more suffering you have already experiencing!.
Remember, there are at least 10 persons in this world who are suffering worse thn you, with more additional pains and difficulties!. If you come to meet these ten worse sufferers, won't you thak God that you are born better off, compared to these ten!. Similarly each of these ten also have to than God, because at least ten people were suffering worse than each of these ten!. Like that we are always better than so many 1000s and lakhs of people, and as such everyone on this earth will thank God, for what he is now, and continue living with more courage and Trust!.
So if Myself or any other will step into your shoes, we will start living and stop worrying!. Better luck now!. I believe, you will surely will live more happily from now onwards!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't! Even if you don't think anyone would miss you, your family truly would!. Enjoy life as it comes, even if you see that there isn't much to enjoy!. You can devote yourself to a cause!. Think of all the children out in Africa who don't have but a meal to eat a day!.!.!. You can save up enough money and visit to help!.!.!.!. You will become respectable and you'll have a goal to achieve! You can also go to church!.!.!. which sounds boring, but you can devote yourself to God, and meet tonssss of new people there!. Church is a good place to meet nice and open people, because that's just the kind of community it is supposed to aim for!. Consider taking up a new job, or setting new goals!. Meet your neighbors :)
Please reconsider suicide! (if that's what you chose)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please reconsider suicide! (if that's what you chose)Www@Answer-Health@Com
they are people who love you and look up to you!. you were born for a reason!. are you going to let this life get the best of you!? are you going to give up that easy!? if we all through the towel in half way through our lifes where would we be!? challenges are in life so that you can concqer them!. there not there for you to find a way around them!. observe with your heart instead of your mind!. learn from today for a better tommorow!. there is a cause worth fighting for! its never whats on the outside!. you have to look deeper to find you meaning!. always remeber that its not about finding you place in this world, its about creating your place!. you've got the music in you!
here comes the sun!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
here comes the sun!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is only a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. Don't do it!. Please!. I had a friend who did that and there were so many people who loved her!. But, she didn't realize that she had always been loved!.!.!.until it was to late!. There are people who care about you! I care about you, the people who wrote before me care about you!. But, most importantly your family cares about you!. So I ask you again!. Please, don't do this!. Also, it is never to late to have a family!. There is a person out there for everyone and you could always adopt!. Please!. Choose to live!. Your life is priceless! You may not see this now!. But, others around you do!.!.!.
So, once again I ask--no!. I beg you to choose life!.
Please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So, once again I ask--no!. I beg you to choose life!.
Please!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide is a sin against God!. You won't like what comes next if you kill yourself!.
Instead, you now have the chance to accept Jesus as your savior and get to heaven: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life (John 3:16)!."
"That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved!. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved!. As the Scripture says, "Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame!." For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile
Instead, you now have the chance to accept Jesus as your savior and get to heaven: "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life (John 3:16)!."
"That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved!. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved!. As the Scripture says, "Anyone who trusts in him will never be put to shame!." For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile
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