I tried to kill myself last night.....I need you serious advice ONLY please!!!?!


Question: I tried to kill myself last night!.!.!.!.!.I need you serious advice ONLY please!!!!?
Yes it's over a boy!. Ive been hurt so many times, he was the one that said he wouldn't hurt me and that would be honest with me!. He is my life and all that makes me happy!. Last night I got an email telling me he's moving 3 hours away!. And he's leaving with his babies mom!. I am completly broken hearted, I feel like im dead already!. I can't eat sleep or functiom!. All I have done today is cry!.Yes I tried to kill myself last night, bc I cannot deal with this!. It has happended to me so many time, this is just the straw that broke the camels back!. I need to know what I need to do because I cannot even think straight!. Please don't be mean about this!. I already know what I did was dumb, and I don't need to hear that!. I need some adviceWww@Answer-Health@Com


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You have to be careful about asking this kind of question because some answers can make you feel worse, not better!.

I don't know how you tried, what you did and whether anyone else knows!. But you are alive and now you have to think about dealing with your emotions!.

It's normal to feel terrible when you lose someone you love, nearly everyone has had that feeling and everyone will have it one day!. You say it yourself - it has happened so many times!. And each time you have recovered!. And you found someone esle who made you happy!. So it can and it will happen agaoin, and I hope this time it will be the right boy and have a happy ending!.

Until then you need to get some self-respect!. Decide that you won't let him ruin your life!. Feel a bit angry with him about letting you down, and decide that you are going to forget about him!. At first you won't be able to, but in the end you will!. You have to face the facts - he has gone, and you need to get on with your life!. So cry and feel sad for a while, but remember that in the end things will be OK again and the sooner you stop crying, the sooner you will be out and meeting the right boy!.

Try to talk to your friends and family if you can!. You need to have some other love to replace his, and that's the safest place to find it right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are serious about killing yourself and are worried you may go through with it then you need to go to your local hospital right now and tell them you have suicidal feelings!.
If you just want to hurt yourself for attention because you're in pain, but not actually die, well that's different!. You just have to learn a better way to deal with the emotional pain instead of physically hurting yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Trust Me there is more to life than boys or men!. You have to find value and happiness on your own!. You cannot rely on someone else to give you happiness!. ONLY YOU can find happiness for yourself and within yourself!.
It is not easy but just keep getting through each day and find at least one thing to be happy about each day!.
When you feel happy about yourself you will not need a man to make you happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You just have to get over this person!. Find someone else you really like, and go for them!. For the time being, how about watching a movie with the person you are really attracted to that's a celebrity!? For me, it would be a movie in which Mandy Moore was in!. Yeah, she's unreachable, but she's makes me happy!.

Or how about going to your favorite place, and making you happy!? For me, it's an amusement park, or carnival!. You won't even think about that person than!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you MUST realize, you are going to get hurt, everyone will get hurt once or over and over-just the nature of relationships until you find the right one!. Think of your past relationships as trial and error, you weren't meant to be with them!. DO NOT ever hurt yourself over a guy and guys, never over a girl!.!.!.!.!.!.just not worth it!. There are so many people out there for everyone!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why would you kill yourself over a boy!? It's just one boy!. There are plenty more, go see a psychiatrist if you have to, just DO NOT kill yourself, it won't be worth it, you'll probably go to Hell, or, worse, just!.!.!. cease to exist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

he is not your life and one day you will realise this,he has a life and a family so allyou can do is move on and find someone who deserves you and loves you,because he doesntWww@Answer-Health@Com

It's good that you found out what kind of guy he is now and he's gone so you can find someone else!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

there's more to life than just a boy!. Go take a vacation or have fun with friends to take your mind off things!. Over time you will get less emotional about this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is serious advice: go see a doctor!. quit asking people onlineWww@Answer-Health@Com

I understand how you feel and I can relate to that situation!. But to try to commit suicide makes me think there are other issues, like maybe you tend to just be depressed!. I think you should call the doctor today and tell them you like to come in and talk about treatments for depression!.(they will have the best answer) Give it a shot!-----------------------------------!.!.!.
after I came back and read the answer below mine I thought they were right, less than a year after something similar happened to me I met my husband!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I will pray for you Ranny P!. Whoever you are, you are not the only one in this situation!. Killing oneself over this is not the solution!. You need to cry as much as you can that being your natural reaction!. You need to talk to someone, most probably a Church Pastor or if you belong some other culture you most probably know better whom to approach!. Unburden on their shoulders all your problems!. Hurt can come from the person whom we love the most!. It is very true in life!. You are perfect in facing your problem!. You are are doing the right thing by asking others!. Get to someone and talk in person!. Talk to God and ask him questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel!. I have been seeing someone for 3 years and he treats me like ****!. I have tried to break it off with him so many times but cant!. Many times I have felt like committing suicide just to teach him a lesson!.!.!.!.and make him sorry!.!.!.!.!.!.!.I actually have planned it out in my mind many times but have never carried it out to completion!. Unfortunately I am in-love with him!. Three days ago I met a wonderful man!.!.!.!.!.there is no chemistry between us!.!.!.!.!.but he is so nice to me!.!.!.!.funny and is open in communication!. He is the opposite of the guy I am in-love with!. I enjoy being with this new man and when I am with him I am not thinking about my lover!. I am going to give this guy a chance and see what happens!. Maybe you should try getting involved with someone else or if that is not an option!.!.!.!.!.try getting involved in any community or church organization or even a hobby or activity!. Try to keep busy and the pain will lessen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well as you already know killing yourself isn't the answer!. Give yourself some time and your heart will heal and you will find someone else that is better for you!. You don't feel like you want to be with anyone else right now but you eventually will!. If he is moving and living with him baby's mom then you're better off without him, let him go and move on, try not to look back!. Also try and keep yourself busy, surround yourself with friends!. You will be ok, you will get over this!. Just don't try and harm yourself, nobody is worth that !!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know you really dont wanna hear this right now but i live by this saying "everything happens for a reason"
Your life may seem horrible right now but when something happens, it only means is happened for a reason and something better is about to happen!. maybe your about to meet someone new and better or maybe you needed time to yourself or maybe he was putting too much stress on you!.!.!. good luck and remember, no boy is ever worth killing yourself over!. One day when you get married, your gona look back and be like "i can believe I was going to kill myself over a boy!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I will try my best to answer you as I did my daughter when she was in a similar state!. Somewhere out there is the ONE meant only for you!. Somewhere out there he is also waiting for the perfect time to meet you!. When you do finally meet it will be bliss! It will be wonderful! Then you'll realize that what you had with this guy was nothing and therefore definitely not worth getting all ruffled up over!. Sometimes we get our lines crossed when we're young because we are in a hurry to meet our perfect mate!.!.!.cuz deep down we know that he's there!.!.!.somewhere!. : )Www@Answer-Health@Com





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