I'm so tired, I just want to quit...?!


Question: I'm so tired, I just want to quit!.!.!.!?
I don't even know what to do with myself at this point!. I feel like I am just wasting my time on this earth!. I don't belong anywhere!. No one understands me and I don't understand others!. I am just fed up with everything!.

Ever since I came to NJ my life has been in turmoil!. I have been depressed for about 9 years now starting from middle school!. I have tried counseling during my time in college but I greatly regret it because it was absolutely no help to my problems!.

I am about to graduate college this December and I am almost done but right now I feel like I can't do it anymore!.!.!.

I hate being home, I hate school!. Although I like my job I hate the people that I work with!.

I feel like I am just wasting my time on this earth!. I don't want to give especially since I have gotten this far but I feel like I just can't continue on!.!.!.

I am just so tired mentally, physically and emotionally!. I can't give up but simultaneously I just can't do it anymore!.!.!.

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I think you just need focus on the positive things!. In your short post, you mention two very positive things:

1!. You are about to graduate college in December - Congrats!. Getting a college degree is no easy task, and not everyone can say he/she has a college degree!.

2!. You like your job - You definitely do not hear that everyday!.

It's quite obvious that you are not wasting your time on earth when you are working and pursuing a college education!. If anything, you are bettering yourself and contributing to society!.

I think you just need to set some goals for yourself:

1!. You said you hate being home - Well, set a goal for yourself to move out!. Save some money and find yourself a good roommate!.

2!. You said counseling didn't work - Try find yourself a counselor who will understand you and help you resolve your problems!. There are plenty of counselors/social workers/psychiatrists out there who are more than happy to help you!.

Don't give up 'cause you've gotten this far, and you are doing so well!.

Good luck to you!.
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December is just around the corner!. just finish college and take that off your plate!. you like your job!. do you know how many persons would like to say that!. build on that and get yourself a nice boyfriend then you won't care that you don't like anyone else!. you don't have to understand anyone and they don't have to understand you!. just be yourself!. I think also that what you need is some healthy natural juices to perk you up give you energy!. I suggest tunguska blast!. it gives energy, mental clarity and much more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You seem to at least like your job, that is one positive thing you have going for you!. Most people hate where they work!. Try giving the people you work with a chance and open up to them a little bit!. You know you have something in common with them!. You will be suprised how much you mean to the people who know you and how they would be effected if you were not here any longer!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't give up!. Life can be very challenging!. You just haven't found your niche!. Do some self reflection!. Figure out what you want from life and go after it!. People are generally happiest when they are pursuing their passion!.

Also have you considered more therapy!? You may have a chemical balance that causes you to feel this way!. I would recommend a full physical as well as a mental evaluation!. I don't think you are crazy but you might benefit from some medsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Everyone has their downers, but don't let it get to you!. No one wastes their time on Earth, and you still have so much to do!.Counseling might not be for you, go for medical help and talk to someone who will actually help you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please go and see your doctor who will be able to help you!. If you dont want to then you could try taking some st johns wort but if you have been depressed for so long you need to see someone really!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

DO NOT RESULT TO SUCIDE! Please dont, do u know how selfish that is!?!?!?!? to everyone who loves you!?!?
Okay, just wanted to clear that up with you, but please, go talk to someone!.!.!.!. i think u have clinical depression!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Is there anything in your life that brings you joy - family!? friends!? hobbies!?

I have felt like this many times in my life!. The only way I have been able to get out of the funk is by surrounding myself with people and things that I (used to) enjoy and by re-framing my life!.

You said that you enjoy your job!? Well, concentrate on finding meaning in this!. Do you enjoy movies, television, or food!? Well, pamper yourself with nights out at the theater or in with a rental!. Try out new recipes or restaurants!.

Do you have any friends whose company you enjoy!? If so - spend more time together!. If not, think about ways to meet new people!.

It sounds like you are in a funk!. I am not sure if you have ever tried medication to ease your depression, but this may be an option!. There are always the tried and true methods of good diet and exercise!. (But I am sure you are sick of hearing that)!.

I wouldn't give up all hope on counseling!. I have had two experiences in this, and the first was absolutely horrible!. I finally convinced myself to try again at a later point and it was a great experience!. It is all about getting a good match with a decent therapist!.

Anyway!. I guess my point is that you are not the only one who feels this way and you definitely are not alone with your feelings!. There is a point to your life, you just need to get better so you can discover it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

LIFE IS TIRING AND LIFE IS HARD!.
Dont give up!. Sounds like your counsling didnt help but dont give up on that either!. Try someone new!. And keep trying until you find a thrypist you connect with!.
Your schooling is almost over thats a good thing right>!?
You enjoy you job thats also a release right!?
You may hate who you work with so find another job doing the same just with different people!.
Never give up no matter how bad things get!. Not only will you let down those that support you down but in long run of life you will let yourself down!.
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