How can i finally conquer the fear of rejection ?!
Question: How can i finally conquer the fear of rejection !?
how can i finally face the fear !?
all my life ive suffered very low self esteem due to childhood bullying, im now nearly 31 and have never formed any friendships - the only social support network i have is my mother and a handful of online friends!.
im socially inept, suffer with aggression problems,
i get clingy, dependent, to intimate to soon, act un self assured , desperate , needy, rely solely upon that person to fill the emptiness and void in my life, expect too much, come across like i cant like myself!.!. struggle to make conversation, feel embarrassed , inferior!.!.
then normally people get frightened off and im rejected, especially by females!.
i have ptsd and a personality disorder , i live alone on disability in a small apartment!.
im working to try and change my life and achieve my goals - a hard plight for me!.
my goals are a decent job in computers and i would like to leave england and move to germany or austria!.
which i know will be hard because i have no work history, no qualifications, no cv , a criminal record 7 years ago ,
i have been dishonored , and publicly embarrassed and humiliated in the past because of rage problems!.
i have physical imperfections ; a small penis , only 5 and a half inches long, and not that thick compared to others ,
i have cracked skin on the head of my penis, which looks unusual, i was told by 1 dermatologist i have ' no ' skin condition , so ive asked for a 3rd opinion, now iam waiting!.!.
i was told the cracked skin could be due to frequent masturbation that ive done for a long while, 12 times a day, everyday !.
because i was sexually abused by other minors when i was young!.
i get shooting pains in my pubic area and running down my penis i think maybe because of frequent masturbation!.
i have an injured ankle, torn the tendons in my ankle due to a strain a year ago - im doing physio exercises now and will need an operation!.
so i have a lot upon my plate at the moment!.
thers a few people who've reached out to me on here, but im scared to get in touch, incase i act in those ' low esteem ' ways and they reject me!.!.
theres a girl on y yahoo Messenger from russia who i spoke to months ago, she seemed friendly , interested , but she doesnt no the truth about all the problems i have!.!.
im scared to go back and message her incase i reveal all my low self esteem ways, the eagerness, the emptiness, she finds out about all my problems and ;
then she rejects me!.
i own nothing btw because i live like a peasant on disability and have no material possessions!.
how can i face this life long fear of rejection !?
please only serious answers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
all my life ive suffered very low self esteem due to childhood bullying, im now nearly 31 and have never formed any friendships - the only social support network i have is my mother and a handful of online friends!.
im socially inept, suffer with aggression problems,
i get clingy, dependent, to intimate to soon, act un self assured , desperate , needy, rely solely upon that person to fill the emptiness and void in my life, expect too much, come across like i cant like myself!.!. struggle to make conversation, feel embarrassed , inferior!.!.
then normally people get frightened off and im rejected, especially by females!.
i have ptsd and a personality disorder , i live alone on disability in a small apartment!.
im working to try and change my life and achieve my goals - a hard plight for me!.
my goals are a decent job in computers and i would like to leave england and move to germany or austria!.
which i know will be hard because i have no work history, no qualifications, no cv , a criminal record 7 years ago ,
i have been dishonored , and publicly embarrassed and humiliated in the past because of rage problems!.
i have physical imperfections ; a small penis , only 5 and a half inches long, and not that thick compared to others ,
i have cracked skin on the head of my penis, which looks unusual, i was told by 1 dermatologist i have ' no ' skin condition , so ive asked for a 3rd opinion, now iam waiting!.!.
i was told the cracked skin could be due to frequent masturbation that ive done for a long while, 12 times a day, everyday !.
because i was sexually abused by other minors when i was young!.
i get shooting pains in my pubic area and running down my penis i think maybe because of frequent masturbation!.
i have an injured ankle, torn the tendons in my ankle due to a strain a year ago - im doing physio exercises now and will need an operation!.
so i have a lot upon my plate at the moment!.
thers a few people who've reached out to me on here, but im scared to get in touch, incase i act in those ' low esteem ' ways and they reject me!.!.
theres a girl on y yahoo Messenger from russia who i spoke to months ago, she seemed friendly , interested , but she doesnt no the truth about all the problems i have!.!.
im scared to go back and message her incase i reveal all my low self esteem ways, the eagerness, the emptiness, she finds out about all my problems and ;
then she rejects me!.
i own nothing btw because i live like a peasant on disability and have no material possessions!.
how can i face this life long fear of rejection !?
please only serious answers!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
The only way to face your fear is to just do it!.
Girls appreciate honesty!. I would suggest telling her up front that you have some issues, and explain how you tend to act and that it has led to rejection in the past!.
Coming right out and telling her this will give her the head's up not to get too concerned, and to warn you if this behavior starts!. That way she won't just panic and run away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Girls appreciate honesty!. I would suggest telling her up front that you have some issues, and explain how you tend to act and that it has led to rejection in the past!.
Coming right out and telling her this will give her the head's up not to get too concerned, and to warn you if this behavior starts!. That way she won't just panic and run away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
get your brain chemistry a changing!
by posting the negative,you re-enforce it!.
saw some really good +ve posts recently from you,i can see you are trying!
and changing!.
this can be/'feel' scary!.
the label helps you least of all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
by posting the negative,you re-enforce it!.
saw some really good +ve posts recently from you,i can see you are trying!
and changing!.
this can be/'feel' scary!.
the label helps you least of all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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There goes my eye-ball
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o-o-o-o-ooooh how I love you le-pro-sy;
There goes my eye-ball
in-to - your - hiiiiiigh-ball!.!.!.'Www@Answer-Health@Com
see another doc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com