Someone please help.....?!

Question: Someone please help!.!.!.!.!.!?

Lately I have been working, trying to go to school, and balance some type of personal and social life all in one!. It has been so crazy lately!. I have school all day and then I have to work and when I come home the house is usually filthy and my mom is commanding me to do all of these chores and we have animals and they need to be fed and bathed and it's crazy!. I work a part time job and I am still stressed out!. Then after I get finished doing all of these chores(some siblings still living at home don't do crap) I have to do all of this homework and it's usually some large load!. After that I am tired, hungry, filthy, and my eyes are as red as hell!. It's usually midnight by the time I get everything done and lately I have this horrible sleep insomnia and I can't get any sleep!. When I wake up I do the same thing all over again!. I have no time for a social life and when I have a chance to get a day off of work I am usually sleeping in the afternoon when I know my mom wants me to do a bunch of housework which is usually alot!. I got this job so I didn't have to be a financial strain on my parents but I feel as usually like I am a strain on them regardless!. I also wanted some type of independence and freedom, but it's like I have to give up everything that makes me feel some happiness!. My mom always talks about how tired she is and how she has to do 'everything' around the house and it makes me feel bad, or I don't know if she is trying to make me feel bad or what!. I want to help but how can I when I have so many other things to tend to!? I am so physically, mentally, and emotionally drained!. I don't have any time for my music or any other interests and hobbies for that matter!. I don't have any friends or any social relashionships for that matter, I wouldn't have time even if I did!.!.!.!.!. I wanted to spend time on my music because that is what I later plan on doing for college, but I don't have ANY time for it and it's killing me!. I've been doing this for almost two months now and I feel like a wreck!. I can't even think straight any more and I had a panic attack earlier today and I felt so overwhelmed that I thought I was going to pass out or something, I wanted to so badly so I could just get away from it all!. I can't keep my eyes open any more and I feel miserable and ill!. My hair is standing on my head, my breath rinks of decaf coffee, and my mind is numb from all of the stress that is sitting upon me of having to get all of my schoolwork in on time!.

I don't even know what day it is anymore, but really I don't care because I know that the days don't matter anymore!.

I am only 17, but I feel like I have to be an adult and try to support myself because I can't stand asking my parents for anything without them getting annoyed at me for asking them for something that costs money!. I don't beg or complain, I just ask politely and most of the time I get a "well don't you have money!?" or just some annoyed look!. The thing is I only work part time and I don't even get paid that much!. I still have to buy gas and food for myself!.

I just!.!.!.!.!.I don't know if I can do it anymore!.!.!.does anyone have any suggestions any help anything!.!.!.I am so tired and drained!.!.!.I just want to crawl in a hole and hide!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Let's keep this real!. It seems to me that your parents are simply being lazy and selfish!. They now know that they have someone who will do all the work for them and know that you really won't say much because they are your parents!. They are using you simple as day!. My advice would be to stand up to them and ask some of the other siblings in the house to step up their game!. You are not the parent nor are you the provider!. Are your parents unable to to perform certain tasks around the house!? Are you religous!? Go to the Lord and ask him to give you strength and understanding and be sincere about it!. Don't throw the towel in just because times are tough right now!. If you think about it your parents think that they are hurting you by making you do all this but in the long run it's only helping you because it's building character!. Also, all the frustration that you have inside you, you need to channel that into your music and I bet you will not only feel better but be dynamic at your craft!. Think about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would make a chart with everyones name on it, and divide the house work!. Put initials on it when item is done!. Discuss this with the whole family at once!. If no one wants to help, look into moving out with a friend!. Let them see what it's like without you!.!.!.!.good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, you do sound stress!. Listen see if you could go to school part time!. Just do your core class!. Work part time, then you still will have time to help your mom!. Also sit down and talk to them about whats goin on!.

I hope this help!!!
Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

The litmus test for quality of life is "do you feel like you're having fun every day!?" If you aren't then maybe it's time to move on!. There's plenty of websites around that can give you nice, clean ways to "shove off this mortal coil!." I'd suggest an overdose of sleeping medication!. Your parents will probably be happier without you, anyways!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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