I have suicide thoughts and I don't know what to do?!


Question: I have suicide thoughts and I don't know what to do!?
im a 13 year old girl!. I'm overweight and have no confidence or and very low self esteem!. I hate everything about my self, from the way I look to my personality!. Some people say im pretty and smart and stuff but I just think they feel pity for me!. I'm very shy at school so don't have any friends or social life, I only have a close family!. Most of the time thou I just spend it alone in my room!. For a long time I've been feeling so hopeless, useless and lonely!. I have no hopes for the future, I just think im going to spend it alone and miserable!. I feel like the world is unfair and cruel and I just don't wanna be apart of it!. I think if im going to die one day then why even bother living through life all together!. Most of the time I just spend it fantasizing about dying or death in general!. Sometimes in the inside I just wanna cry but in the outside i'm this bubbly, funny person!. I have never told this to anyone, not even the social worker I have to meet with every week at school!. I don't know what to do!. I have been debating for a while if I should tell the social worker what I'm feeling or not!. I even have the rope ready and my suicide letter ready!. I'm scare of hurting my family if I actually go through with this!. What should I do!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Oh Darlin, you sound like most teenage girls and a lot of what you said reminded me of myself at your age!. I have to say that being a teenager can really suck sometimes!. I know you feel now that it is hopeless but trust me it's not!. Life goes through cycles and there will always be ups and downs!. You need to hang on to the ups and don't sweat the small stuff!. I'm sure your parents would be so worried that you are feeling this way - can you talk to them!? I definitely think you need to tell the social worker as they have ways and means of helping you through this stuff!.

Please, please don't go ahead with your suicide plans - life will sort itself out and you will look back at this and be glad you got through it!.

Good luck sweetie!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell the social worker, bring him/her the rope and letter to prove it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Seek counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to your social worker about it!. They hopefully can get you the help that it sounds like you're reaching out for!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!. It really is!. Talk to your social worker about your thoughts and feelings!. There is help available!. Talk therapy, medications - all can help end the despair you are feeling!. If you are more comfortable telling another adult (a parent, or a teacher) do so!.

I also recommend you get rid of the rope immediately!. So that if your mood does start dropping you don't have something so deadly readily available!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Suicide of course is not the answer!. All it does is cause more pain and suffering for your loved ones!.

I know this is easier said than done but you need to stop beating yourself up!. You need to ask yourself, "How do I treat my friends!?" I'm assuming you would say, "Good" You would never say those same things about your friends then why would you want to treat yourself that way!?

You need to start treating yourself like a friend!. I know this is a very simple concept but it actually works!.

As for your thoughts of feeling hopeless and suicidal, you need to get professional help immediately!. There are programs that will help you in coping with your depression and you can get the needed support that you require!.

Don't be afraid! You have nothing to be ashamed of and you would be surprised how many others have the same feelings and thoughts as you!. You are not alone!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Want to know something, I used to think about it to!. Do you know what I found the best answer was!? Find something that makes life living for a little longer!. Say you want to see a movie, or some new CD or something is coming out that you want!. You have to wait for it, so you can't kill yourself today!. You find a reason to put it off and you end up not wanting to do it!. School sucks and it really can make a nice regular person left out with no way to the in crowd!. You know what I think, that you don't need those people!. Stay around long enough to show everyone exactly what you are worth!.

OK, one thing I need to say that you aren't going to like, suicide is for losers!. Its a terribly selfish thing to do to the people who love you!. So why don't you do us all a favor and find a better use for that rope ok!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

you must know & understand that Suicide is "SIN" & it is so bad work!. you shall have to accept that you are really so beauty, smart & healthy from heart & mind,!. Because God has given u abnormal gift as human life!. U must try to do decrese your overweight according to medical tritment & natural tips!. Keep always cool happy from heart!. As well as pray the God!.
S!.Harry (Student)
God Bless youWww@Answer-Health@Com





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