Is there something wrong with me mentally? Do you do this too?!


Question: Is there something wrong with me mentally!? Do you do this too!?
I do this with a lot of things!. Like dating!. I'll start dating someone I really fancy but after like 2 months, I feel like I don't want them anymore!. I become really nonchalant about everything!. I usually keep quiet during this time because I know that i'll want it back eventually!.

Right now the issue is that I got an adorable rabbit!. He has been nothing but sweet to me and has been very good!. He doesn't bite people, chew on furniture, nor does he make a mess!. For this past week, he's warmed my heart with his antics and has brought lots of joy!. But suddenly, I just don't want him anymore!. I feel horrible for feeling this way!. I don't know why I don't want him!. I'm trying to reassure my self that this will pass but what if it doesn't!?

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Answers:
were you neglected or abandoned as a child!. sometimes people that were cant commit to anything for long periods of time and are scared to get close to anyone!. just in case i guess that they die or leave them!. if you had a great loss in your life that is common to feel this way!. you have to work through it!. it takes time but maybe with professional help you can get past it and find the root of the problem!. good luck to youWww@Answer-Health@Com

you just get bored too easily!.
you need to mature some!.
get yer bunny some new toys or something aand play with it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I go through it too!.
It's an abandonment issue!. I can imagine someone with a parent in the military probably watched them disappear for periods of time throughout their life!. Most likely the parent that did this was the one they were closest to or emulated most!.
It seems this effect is more intense when the parent of interest was very attentive when present!.
In my case there was many different traumas around my unbeknown real father!.
You will get past it!. Only it will be necessary to do so each and every time you form a relationship!.
It will be easier for you with certain people compared to others!.
This sense of comfort or understanding may more readily commit you to love someone before you actually know them!. That can be troublesome!. Especially if you go to test them and push them away after the first one breaks your heart!.

Life is so complicated!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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