Why do I do this? I want to stop.?!


Question: Why do I do this!? I want to stop!.!?
I tend to like obsess over things!. To be honest I feel like a stalker!. When I fall for someone, like usually you know they're on your mind a lot!. But like I'll look at their profile a few times!. And such!. And I can't help but feel like a freak!. Cause I am!. I just want to stop!. I don't want my mind to do this to me any more!. Is it because I long for someone to love me!? Or do I need more help!? Which I probably won't do in the end cause I'm a stubborn b@stard like that!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I'm in the same boat as you!. I feel this way for someone I work with and I can't stop but think about her every second even though I hardly ever talk to her!. I feel like I was meant to be with her, But it never happens!. I always worry about her like its my business and we aren't even close!. I feel the same way as you do!.

Someone told me its just because nobody shows love twords me so this is the way I take it out!. So you could be right when you say you have waited long for someone to love you!. Some people just don't know what its like, when you are lonely enough you seek attention anyway possible!. Thats why girls are anorexic and things like that!. We will do anything to get someone to notice us!. Ive personally thought about just telling the girl I think about so much that I love her and opening up to her and if things don't work out to just kill myself!. But I know im just a big p-ussy and that will never happen but it crosses my mind every second!.

honestly, it won't stop until you open up to whoever you are stalking!. Because even if life does go on and you never do!. You will still remember when its your least worry!. That you could have been with them and married them and have had kids with them and stuff like that!. It bothers the phuck out of me!.!. at least I know im not the only one!. My advice to you is!.!.!. phuck it!.!. just tell whoever it is how you feel and don't get your hopes up!. Because if you do, you will expect them to like you back!. Just know that its not the end of the world if you do decide to talk to them!. Because if you don't!.!. you will be like me!.!.!. always misrable!.

Sometimes its best to just talk to them as friends and make sure that they are the type of person you can tell things like that before you do!. I think thats what im gonna do with the girl I like!. I don' t know but I hope it works out!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com

actually, you may be clinically Obsessive/Compulsive!. You may need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist about it!. There is medication for OCD!. There are many emotionally exercises for it too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories