How do i gain confidence?!
Question: How do i gain confidence!?
every time my bf tells me im good lookin or sexy i just laugh, i don't believe it for a second, the lights always hav to be off when we're "in bed" and i feel ridiculous when im wearing anything revealing or "sexy" like for going out or in the bedroom!. i was in an abusive relationship for nearly 7 years and i've gotten to the point where i know i shouldn't believe what i listened to for all those years but some of it has stuck, like ugly fat and waste of spaceWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I know what you mean i'm gay and i was in a relationship 8 years ago fo'r about 7 months,and the guy was just real abusive towards me he would put me down,and call me ugly,and skinny,and just make me feel like sh** all the time,and then we broke up and i met someone else who treated me good,and tried to boost my confidence up all the time by telling that i was handsome and sexy !.!.etc,but no matter what he would say to me and how much he would try to compliment me i "never" believed him at all,and those nasty spiteful things that my first b/f was saying to me stuck with me,and even to this day i still feel hurt,and bad about it,but i also know that i have talked to a lot of guys who have thought i was cute and would love to date me,and what kind of worked for me was i changed my confidence by working out and exercising,because i knew that it was me who was my own worst critic,and i feel a lot better from doing those things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think if other men start saying those kindah things to you that would boost you're confidence!. so, every chance you get, flaunt it!!! just do it stylishly!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Get a Victoria Secret's sleep wear and fix your hair nice and make love to your boyfriend with the light on!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do some martial arts and kick some ***! They're always brimming with confidence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com