What the hell is going on now?!


Question: What the hell is going on now!?
My life was never good!. I never had a true friend or any real friends and I'm 14!. Whenever somebody moves to my school they become true friends with me and then 2 or 3 weeks later they move on and they stop talking to me!. Even after I helped them out on their problems and when I tell them how things work around here they just leave me and I'm alone again!. I just hang out with a group of my friends even though they aren't real friends and they don't really like to talk to me much!. I can't find annoy one else besides annoying people I don't want to be with and the "gangster" people who are cruel to be friends with!. Don't tell me to join an activity around here it wouldn't work!. It seems like I don't fit in even though my friends skate like me!. Some people in my group say there life sucks but it isn't true, they have friends and even a girlfriend!. If I were them I'll be happy!. People ask me whats wrong all the time even the people who mess with me but I just say nothing because why would they care if they hurt and jack me!.

I hate being alone is there anything that can help me out!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I felt this way for a LONG LONG time myself!. I'm 23 now and I will tell you that it gets better!. I do not miss high school at all or even middle school for that matter because all of it is just drama!. I didn't date until I turned 21, so don't' feel like you're alone in that regard, sometimes it's better to wait for the prince rather than kiss a bunch of frogs to find the right one!. Having standards is not a bad thing at all and you should not lower them for anyone because you will not be happy if you settle for less than you know you want!. Also after high school I only talk to 2 of my friends that I knew then, the rest of them move on with their lives!. I will tell you though that when you hit college THAT is where you make friends that last for life!. It's normal to want friendship and to hate being alone, nobody wants to be alone, but just know that these things will come with time, and a lot of it has to do with your being willing to open up and talk to people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Other children can be so cruel sometimes!. I was an outcast too, and the only solution to the problem was to join forces with the other outcasts!. they often have similar personalities, which is the one thing that makes you " unpopular" don't worry too much about them popular people!. my mom says that outcasts will always end up being their bosses someday!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just keep on skating and enjoying whatever other activities you enjoy!.

It sounds like you've got your head on right, so don't lower yourself to the standards of the "gangsters" or any other group that act like *****!.

You DON'T need a doctor dude, you are only 14!. Troubles seem much bigger than they really are at your age!. In time, girlfriends and true friends will fall into place and life will seem pretty good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i have the same problem as you!. i don't have a really good friend, i only hand around with ppl who won't really talk to me!. i don't know what to do either, bet we could be good friendsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Friends come and go!.!.!.I never really had a true friend!.

Worry about your self!.

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