Can't Be Together, Not Coping Well At All! Please Help!?!
Question: Can't Be Together, Not Coping Well At All! Please Help!!?
I have fallen completely for someone that I have got to know over the past year!. We get on amazingly well, he makes me laugh and smile, he cares so much about me as I do him and we are incredibly attracted to one another!. We have taken a lot of time to get to know each other, I have opened up to him and he has done the same and we have made so many plans!. BUT we can never be together!. Unfortunately that is not going to change (for various reasons too long to explain here) and I
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If it cannot be, it cannot be!.
It sounds like if you keep seeing him - even in the most platonic of ways - you will fall in love with him!. If you haven't already!. And that is bad, when it definitely cannot be!.
Either, it can be, and you can keep seeing him!.
But if it is absolutely impossible, cut him out of your life!. Completely!. It is hard and cruel, but if you fall in love with this man and keep seeing him, you will spend the rest of your life dreaming of what could have been, in another life, under other circumstances!. That will be a waste of your life, and you will end up unbearably unhappy!.
So you have to cut him out, and not see him AT ALL so you can get over him, and eventually notice other men, and basically get a life!. Find happiness!. With someone else!. It probably feels like there can be noone else, but there are a LOT of guys out there, and you only have to find one!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like if you keep seeing him - even in the most platonic of ways - you will fall in love with him!. If you haven't already!. And that is bad, when it definitely cannot be!.
Either, it can be, and you can keep seeing him!.
But if it is absolutely impossible, cut him out of your life!. Completely!. It is hard and cruel, but if you fall in love with this man and keep seeing him, you will spend the rest of your life dreaming of what could have been, in another life, under other circumstances!. That will be a waste of your life, and you will end up unbearably unhappy!.
So you have to cut him out, and not see him AT ALL so you can get over him, and eventually notice other men, and basically get a life!. Find happiness!. With someone else!. It probably feels like there can be noone else, but there are a LOT of guys out there, and you only have to find one!.
good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well if you can't be together, then maybe you can find other ways to communicate with each other!. Maybe online, mail, phone etc!. It sounds like he is the one for you and you don't want to push them away simply because you cant be together!. Instead find a way to communicate and keep your relationship until things pass and you are finally able to be together!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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