Is it wrong to feel joy?!
Question: Is it wrong to feel joy!?
My friend passed away last week!. Today my friends did everything to cheer me up!. I was laughing and joking around!. I felt really bad!. I'm laughing & my friend is dead!. WTF is wrong with me!? I saw my friends picture and just broke down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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WTF is wrong with you!?
NO Matter WHAt! your friend is always in your heart!.
You're laughing, your friend will laugh with you!.
You cry, now that's what your friend will do!.
So be happy!.
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NO Matter WHAt! your friend is always in your heart!.
You're laughing, your friend will laugh with you!.
You cry, now that's what your friend will do!.
So be happy!.
How bout checking mine out!?
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First off, I'm very sorry to hear about your lose!. I know how it can be!. A dear friend of mine passed away 2 years ago!. There's not a day that goes by when I dont think of him!. However, think of it this way!.!.!.!.your friend wouldn't want you to cry all the time or mope around the house doing nothing!. They'd want you to be HAPPY!. So laughing & joking around isn't wrong!. Everyone has their own way of doing things to deal with the lose of a loved one!. Studies have shown anyways that laughing is a great thing!. Just think that your friend would want you to live a happy, healthy life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi Miss!. Bublebee!.
First let me say that I am so sorry that you lost your friend!. It is never easy when we lose someone we care about so much!.
You are going through the grieving period!. You may find yourself having feelings that seem strange to you!. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having any of those feelings, including joy!.
It is very common, in many nationalities, to get together after the funeral to eat and tell stories about the person who died!. The people end up laughing and having a good time!. They are celebrating the life of the person who passed away!.
When I was 14, one of my grandfathers died!. After the funeral, there was a dinner in the back room of a restaurant!. I couldn't talk to anyone because every time I tried to talk, I would start to cry; so I kept quiet!. But everyone around the huge table started to talk about my grandfather and ended up laughing and having a great time!. Even my grandmother started to laugh after a bit!. I was so angry at all of them because I felt it was disrespectful to my grandfather!. Later, my grandmother spoke to me about it and explained it to me!. It did make sense, but it took years before I truly understood it!.
Your friends did a good thing for you!. They know you are sad and grieving and wanted to try to give your emotions a "break!." They were successful!. They had you laughing and joking around!. This was a good thing!. It is snot disrespectful to your friend!.
Your emotions are going to feel like a roller coaster for quite a while!. You may break down in tears at odd times!. You may start to think of your friend during good times and smile or even laugh!. It is all part of the grieving process!. There is no right or wrong when it comes to our feelings during grief!. You may even feel angry at times!. This, too, is normal!.
Try to not be so hard on yourself!. You suffered a terrible loss!. Your emotions will be all over the place for a while!. Don't let anyone tell you how long it should take before you get better!. It is different for each person!.
Eventually, you will be able to think about your friend and feel good!. You will be left with all the good memories!. You will hold your friend close to your heart forever!. Your friend would want you to be happy!. That will come in time!. Be gentle with yourself!. It is OK to cry, to be angry, to be confused and, yes, to feel joy!.
I wish you the best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First let me say that I am so sorry that you lost your friend!. It is never easy when we lose someone we care about so much!.
You are going through the grieving period!. You may find yourself having feelings that seem strange to you!. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having any of those feelings, including joy!.
It is very common, in many nationalities, to get together after the funeral to eat and tell stories about the person who died!. The people end up laughing and having a good time!. They are celebrating the life of the person who passed away!.
When I was 14, one of my grandfathers died!. After the funeral, there was a dinner in the back room of a restaurant!. I couldn't talk to anyone because every time I tried to talk, I would start to cry; so I kept quiet!. But everyone around the huge table started to talk about my grandfather and ended up laughing and having a great time!. Even my grandmother started to laugh after a bit!. I was so angry at all of them because I felt it was disrespectful to my grandfather!. Later, my grandmother spoke to me about it and explained it to me!. It did make sense, but it took years before I truly understood it!.
Your friends did a good thing for you!. They know you are sad and grieving and wanted to try to give your emotions a "break!." They were successful!. They had you laughing and joking around!. This was a good thing!. It is snot disrespectful to your friend!.
Your emotions are going to feel like a roller coaster for quite a while!. You may break down in tears at odd times!. You may start to think of your friend during good times and smile or even laugh!. It is all part of the grieving process!. There is no right or wrong when it comes to our feelings during grief!. You may even feel angry at times!. This, too, is normal!.
Try to not be so hard on yourself!. You suffered a terrible loss!. Your emotions will be all over the place for a while!. Don't let anyone tell you how long it should take before you get better!. It is different for each person!.
Eventually, you will be able to think about your friend and feel good!. You will be left with all the good memories!. You will hold your friend close to your heart forever!. Your friend would want you to be happy!. That will come in time!. Be gentle with yourself!. It is OK to cry, to be angry, to be confused and, yes, to feel joy!.
I wish you the best of luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is your way of grieving!. There is nothing you can do by sitting around moping!. If you are laughing, your friend would have rather seen you in that state rather than mourning for her!. Everything will be fine, keep laughing and smiling, because sitting around depressed isn't going to bring the person back!. I am sorry for your loss, it is sad but don't dwell on it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm trying to think of how your dead friend would benefit by you being down in the dumps!. 'Can't think of anything!.
If something comes to mind, I'll try to get back into this one and tell you!.
Go out, kick up your heels, and have a ball!. Your friend and everyone else will thank you!.
Oh, thank the friends that did everything to cheer you up!. They are friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If something comes to mind, I'll try to get back into this one and tell you!.
Go out, kick up your heels, and have a ball!. Your friend and everyone else will thank you!.
Oh, thank the friends that did everything to cheer you up!. They are friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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