I need advise from a psychologist or an older wise adult ?!


Question: I need advise from a psychologist or an older wise adult !?
whats wrong with me!? I hate socializing most of the time because it involves a lot of effort for me, so what i do is avoid conversation!. i know its wrong because its affecting me, but i do it any way!. I honestly don't see whats the purpose of talking just to talk, there has to be a purpose in a conversation!. socializing is different when it involves two people and when it is a group socializing!. When its in a group, there is less effort needed then when it among 2 people!. I some times have a hard time thinking of what to talk about and I'm naturally very self conscious about things, most of the time i just don't know how to react to things!.So like i said to avoid all the stress and over thinking i avoid the problem which is people!. I hate to be a burden to people so i never ask for favors and i sometimes get annoyed by people who ask for favors!. I don't know why but being in an area where i know most of the people bothers me!. I create an awkwardness to my self but honestly don't know how to react most of the time, so what do i do!? Honestly i just feel like life is just one big television show, I am the viewer and i only observe whats going on, whats weird is that when attention is brought to me it feels surreal and i just don't know how to act!. Please help me! Can you please let me know what my problem is and provide advise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
You sound like an introvert!. Introverted people usually don't do well in groups of people and have a hard time socializing!. The trick to opening up is to not be so self conscious!. I used to be scared to talk to anyone, but over the years I have learned that people are not so bad once you get it in your head that you have something worthwhile to add!. I worked in professions where I had to deal with people!. I joined the military, worked as corrections officer, and now am in nursing!.

There is nothing wrong with you!. Your not broken!. So please don't feel as if you are!. Once you figure that out and actually believe in yourself then I think you will find that people are okay!.
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You sound very lonely!. People usually want to talk to other people for companionship and comfort!. You seem extremely self conscious and without knowing you at all and based on your question, I recommend that you talk to your parents about this and see if they feel professional help may be needed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have a condition called PTSD!. I experience some of that same feeling of being an observer , like being outside of myself!. You should really talk to someone you can trust and probably seek professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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