I am in need of immediate advice here can someone help please?!


Question: I am in need of immediate advice here can someone help please!?
okay see this boy knows that i like him and i do!. well yesterday i talked to him about through emails!. and see he told me that his last gf was a psycho and tried to kill, and then told me that he couldn't be my bf!. And said its not me but it truly is him!. and i told him that i didn't want to date yet anyways but wanted to be very good friends and he said that was really wanted to do that but in different words!. I feel that he maybe scared to date anyone right now!. Do you think that if i get to know him a little better and show him that i am not a psycho, do you think that maybe he will give a shot!?!?!? I need help!. (*tear*)
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If you can be his friend without letting feelings get in the way, then yes be one of his best friends and sometime that leads to more but sometimes it doesn't!. It may take a very long time for him to trust anyone again!. Men tend to have trust issues with cheating and psycho girls!. I was friends with my high school love for 3 years and went throught 2 "girlfrieds" with him before we even started dating and we ended up getting married!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take things slow!. In a situation where someone has been in a bad and abusive relationship it is best to let that person set the tone and the pace of the relationship!.

The best thing that you can do is show your support and step back!. It's a hard thing to do when you are really into someone!. It is the best case scenario!. You wouldn't want to push him away and ruin any chances of friendship and later relationship!.

Show him that he can trust you by giving him the space he needs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think you have answered your own question!. which i would agree!. yes be friends with him first and let things develop slowly!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes thats important get to know him better like be nice and dont act crazy or talk to him about killing or anything just demonstrate to him that your not!.!.!.!. then see if he gives you a shot Www@Answer-Health@Com

U def right juss take ur time n gett to no him a lot then see where u go next with the situation!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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