I want to live a better life?!
Question: I want to live a better life!?
ok this might sound kind of offensive and im sorry if i hurt someones feelings but i look around at school and in public and i notice that some of the most bad looking people are so confident( i know i shouldnt talk about people and i try not to but this is the only way to say it)!. i have low confidence self esteem and a low self image of myself!. my whole life boys have called me ugly i rarely hear a girl say it!. i have some of the cutest girls in school and plenty of other girls like me!. also i have grown women and college girls telling me im cute and handsome and good looking but i dont belive them i look in the mirror and expect to see an ugly person even though i know deep down im not that bad looking if these women are telling im cute and stuff!. i recently started boxing and its helping i walk with my back up and head up!. i just feel better about myself!. i also noticed that whenever im out in public im confident and think i look good but when im in school i think im ugly!.( i lose my confidence during school)!. i live one life and im trying to raise my confidence, slef esteem and self image so i can enjoy my life and not worry about what people think of me!. can you all give me tips and maybe some websites that can give me some pointer on where to start!. thanx im not going to do therapy so dont put that!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
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The guys are hating on you because you're getting the attention from the girls!. Ignore them! If these guys are your friends then drop them ASAP!. Self-confidence comes from within!. You are doing great things now to improve your self-image (i!.e!. working out)!. Tell yourself positive things and when you look in the mirror say nice things to yourself!. Hearing it will make you internalize it and believe it!. Begin to check out magazines like GQ, Men's Health and even Maxim!. They have great articles about the things men deal with!. I am pretty sure you look good!. (wink) You have to tell yourself that you do, too!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Pick one feature of yourself that you like both in and out of school to focus on, and build off that!. Every week pick a new feature to add to the list and focus on it!. Or maybe write a reminder note to yourself outside of school to read while you're in school!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dude!! i feel the same way!. My mom and sisster have told me that im hott but i just dont believe them i have all the girls i could want and still think im ugly its just our personality i guess!. i run instead of box but it helps with confidence its only school that i feel down about myself and find it hard to consintrate on school work when im constintaly thinking about myself im glad i found someone like me lol good luck with our problem man!. i went on antidepresants by the way you should try that i was diagnosed with severe deprestion and may have aspbergers disorder the antidepresants they gave me make me feel like im god or the center of the universe maybe you should look into it and therapy isnt bad at all i said the same thing as you but ive been about 5 times now and i accually think it is straightening my life out give it a try do it like 2 times with someone you like and you may find it a really nice life tool just some advice bro!. laterWww@Answer-Health@Com
it really sounds like you have self confidence issues!.!.!. my question back to you is why! you shouldn't be het up on what other people think of you, just flow with life, read up on things your interested in (this will give you an insight into something that people will regard you highly) for me it was computers - i learnt about computers and how they work!. now people respect my knowledge when it comes to this topic!.!.!. thats just one thing!. You have to develop yourself as a person!.!.!. become an individual you want to be and not a stereotype!. You don't need to have the beauty that is portrayed in magazines to be appealing to others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com