How to redeem myself after lashing out?!
Question: How to redeem myself after lashing out!?
I have!.!.!. and I tried getting closure (and my keys back- I gave his back earlier in our relationship because I knew it wouldn't work out)!. He lied to me instead of just letting me go!. Being ignored brings out the worst in me!. How do I redeem myself after lashing out at him for lying (that he didn't have time for me b/c of work, then was looking for a girl on a website)!? After I lashed out at him (in texts- no profanity- just told him it really hurt), I followed up 3x for my keys in a week!. He's not responding and must think I'm stalking him!. I'm in need of redemption!. I do not normally act so insecure!.!.!. What to do!?
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Answers:
yo i dont think ur in a position where u need redemption, i fully agree with ur actions!. if theres a guy running around out there with a key to ur place, who knows what he'll end up doing!. i actually think u should continue bugging him about it so he'll get so annoyed that he'll give it back!.
but since u said u feel insecure, u prlly wouldn't wanna do that!. u could always just change the lock on ur door so his copy of the key would be ineffective!.
as for redemption, in whose eyes do u wanna redeem urself; his or yours!? to me, it doesnt seem like youve done anything wrong; this guy doesnt want to give ur keys back and hes ignoring u about it and thats not cool!. so dont feel bad about yourself, u were just doing what needs to be done!. and for the guy, if hes doing this to u hes clearly not worth redeeming urself in his eyes (if that makes any sense!.!.!.!.lol)
anyways thats my 2 cents on ur situation!. hope everything works outWww@Answer-Health@Com
but since u said u feel insecure, u prlly wouldn't wanna do that!. u could always just change the lock on ur door so his copy of the key would be ineffective!.
as for redemption, in whose eyes do u wanna redeem urself; his or yours!? to me, it doesnt seem like youve done anything wrong; this guy doesnt want to give ur keys back and hes ignoring u about it and thats not cool!. so dont feel bad about yourself, u were just doing what needs to be done!. and for the guy, if hes doing this to u hes clearly not worth redeeming urself in his eyes (if that makes any sense!.!.!.!.lol)
anyways thats my 2 cents on ur situation!. hope everything works outWww@Answer-Health@Com