People keep cutting me off?!
Question: People keep cutting me off!?
Hello:
I don't post much but I just want to know has this ever happened to anyone!. I have been noticing that people don't seem to want to hear what I have to say!. They keep cutting me off but I find that as long as I'm talking to them about them, Its okay!.But if I remotely try to say anything about myself, they cut me off, change the subject or move the conversation back to themselves!.
Has this ever happened to anyone and what did U do about it!?
Personally, I think I need to shut up across the board and not make any comment about anything!. This really hurts me too because its like if I have a problem, I dont really have anyone to talk to about it!.I have a friend who is having troubles with a guy she likes and wants to chat about him all the time and Ihave talked with her about it but I had a situation occur about a month ago and tried to talk with her about it and she was very dismissive!. I was crushed!!!
But as long as they have problems they want to talk to me but if I have a problem, I'm cut off, subjects are changed and I'm dismissed!.
Please shed some light if you can!.
Been praying about it too!.
Thanks AryannaWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't post much but I just want to know has this ever happened to anyone!. I have been noticing that people don't seem to want to hear what I have to say!. They keep cutting me off but I find that as long as I'm talking to them about them, Its okay!.But if I remotely try to say anything about myself, they cut me off, change the subject or move the conversation back to themselves!.
Has this ever happened to anyone and what did U do about it!?
Personally, I think I need to shut up across the board and not make any comment about anything!. This really hurts me too because its like if I have a problem, I dont really have anyone to talk to about it!.I have a friend who is having troubles with a guy she likes and wants to chat about him all the time and Ihave talked with her about it but I had a situation occur about a month ago and tried to talk with her about it and she was very dismissive!. I was crushed!!!
But as long as they have problems they want to talk to me but if I have a problem, I'm cut off, subjects are changed and I'm dismissed!.
Please shed some light if you can!.
Been praying about it too!.
Thanks AryannaWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
well speaking from personal experience!.!.!.!.!.!.!.same thing happens to me!.!.!.!.!.the thing my friends would talk about is their problems and what should they do about it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i think its partially becoz people see me as a problem solver and listener (which i am)!.
Maybe thats what they look as up to u!.!.!.!.!.!.a person who can help them with their problems and get them out of tight situations!. so be glad they see u as a person they can confide in and is mature enough to help them!.
and as for the dismissal when you talk about yourself, it also happens to me !.!.!.!.A LOT!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
so i think u just need to find a more mature friend who can talk to your level (i haven't been able to do this though)!.!.!.Just a suggestion!.!.!.though don't leave your old friends Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe thats what they look as up to u!.!.!.!.!.!.a person who can help them with their problems and get them out of tight situations!. so be glad they see u as a person they can confide in and is mature enough to help them!.
and as for the dismissal when you talk about yourself, it also happens to me !.!.!.!.A LOT!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
so i think u just need to find a more mature friend who can talk to your level (i haven't been able to do this though)!.!.!.Just a suggestion!.!.!.though don't leave your old friends Www@Answer-Health@Com
People are self-involved!.
Especially co-workers!.
I'm sure that friends don't do this!?
Many times, people just seem to be waiting for your lips to stop moving so they can say something about themselves!.
In your lifetime, you will gather a small but loyal group of friends who will always want to hear what you have to say!. Please be patient!.
Make sure what you say at work is not gossipy, poisonous, too overly political or religious!. Leave the meatier conversations for your friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Especially co-workers!.
I'm sure that friends don't do this!?
Many times, people just seem to be waiting for your lips to stop moving so they can say something about themselves!.
In your lifetime, you will gather a small but loyal group of friends who will always want to hear what you have to say!. Please be patient!.
Make sure what you say at work is not gossipy, poisonous, too overly political or religious!. Leave the meatier conversations for your friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe when you change the subject to yourself, you unknowingly talk about something boring, weird, or generally uncomfortable to the person you're talking to!. If it happens again, try lightening the subject a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
people dont know how good of a person you are !. i dont know you but i can tell by your question that your a real person with a bright mindWww@Answer-Health@Com
It seems that the people you hang out with are extremely arrogant!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you were to talk talk quieter and softer people would have to pay more attention to hear youWww@Answer-Health@Com
don't feel sorry for yourself feel sorry for them because there not good friends!. but maybe the problems you have are out of there league to handle and they honestly have no idea on how to help you and they don't want to look stupid to try to help so they change the subject (yea right lol) but sounds nice to give them an excuse but id find a better friend to talk your problems over with not saying give up your old just don't take your problems to them!. If they see you with someone and hear they been helping you they'll get jealous and want to help you with other probelms people are betty like that sorry to say!. Www@Answer-Health@Com