How can I feel better when momentum shifts and things don't go my way?!


Question: How can I feel better when momentum shifts and things don't go my way!?
Seriously I been really down lately!. I been studying for a test and I will be the first to admit I am an Absolute terrible test taker!. I'm lucky and thankful if I get a C and this is with hours of studying!. I was suppose to study with this woman tonight and she couldn't make it!. Not only that but I been have problems in general lately of having quite a bit of girls calling me back!. Sometimes and I'm serious when I say this I feel like a mistake on this Earth!. It's unfair to me that I want the best for other people especially women who need all the respect they can get!. I just wish I had a little more luck!. Let alone all of this my favorite football team lost!.!.!. and my favorite pair of jeans are completely ruined (long story)!.

Also I find myself as a respectful guy who is just struggling lately and even being optimistic, things still end up going bad!. I know things have to get better!. I look on the bright side!.!.!. It can always be worse!. I'm starting to wonder though if college isn't for me!. I'm also wondering if girls forgot about a man's nice personality and caring/thinking about them more than it seems like it!.

Is it true!? Do bad things happen to nice people!?

Thanks for any help!. I really need it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi my Friend sorry your having a bad week!. I always say if things are down there is only one way to go and that is back up!.
Know that you are doing your best by studying and trying to achieve your best!. It is a accomplishment no matter what the grade!.
When it comes to girls know that there is a girl that is looking for a guy like you out there!. I know that for a fact!. She will walk in to your life It just may not be right now!. Do know that girls like confidence and a fun, caring and respectful guy like you!. As for your favorite team not winning, know that there is always next time and that your a awesome fan and your favorite team appreciates a person like you feeling there pain too and sticking by them no matter what!. I hope that your day gets better !. Breath and take things one thing at a time!. Its going to get better sweetie!. (((( HUGE HUGS))))
Your friend Sugar bug = )Www@Answer-Health@Com

oh man, you are smack dab in the middle of a sad little self-fulfilling prophecy!. you need to shake it off!. your problems are:

having to study (in college)
your football team losing a game
ruined pants
girl problems

this is just LIFE!. honestly, the world isn't against you, or anybody else!. you're just having a tough time right now, but it's not like you found out you have cancer or your mom died or your wife left you!. just try to remember that life is a rollercoaster and you can't have the awesome highs without some lows!. and stop swimming laps in the pity pool, it's not helping you at all!.

fyi: it's not about "fair"!. life is not a game that you win by playing by the rules!. it's just about living and learning from your experiences and you're doing that so you're good!. now, stop being a Debbie Downer, take a break from your studies to clear your mind, and do something fun for a couple hours!. you're in college, not auschwitz!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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