Help, it Truly is life or death?!


Question: Help, it Truly is life or death!?
OK, i'm a young girl!. I just started middle school!. And it's a lot more pressure than I expected!. I don't fit in, and never really have!. But now I stick to back corners, don't really speak much, and hide myself!. I've started cutting my wrists, and its scares me a little, because it becoming more and more normal for me!. I wake up depressed more than i should!. I have friends, and lately I've been pulling myself away from all them!. And my grades are slipping, and I have pressure from my WHOLE family!. I have to get amazing grades or I'm an outcast!. I've talked to my mom about my depression but she won't take me anywhere, she says ever kid goes through it!. But i know not ever kids goes through THIS!. I mope around, not caring about life, and I've thought of suicide more than count, but I wanna die, but I wanna live!. I'm confused on everything!. I'm so confused, i don't know what to do! I'm scared to talk to anyone else about this, because I don't want them to tell other people about it! And I don't know!. JUST HELP ME, PLEASE!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I've been through it!.

You just have to be open, that's what my psychologist said!. You must not be afraid to let others notice the problems you have!. People all over the world, and yes even children (I'm 14 years old) have these problems!. Don't do things you'll regret!.

I ruined 1 year of my life because of that crap!. (I failed my schoolyear) If you have good friends they will understand and try to help you!. Same for your parents!.

EDIT: I talked with school councilors and crap and the only thing they're gonna do is send you to a psychologist like they did with me, lol!. but it's good to let them know whats going on so they don't treat you like you're a bad girl or sth
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Yes, be open, be communicative with everyone around you!.

Do things that make YOU happy!.

This is a very very important time in your life!.

The habits you make now will be long and lasting!.
Make good ones!

Do things that are good for others, things that are good for our environment, for your community, your family, and your friends!.


I have found that focusing less on myself, and more on helping others, has brought me the most joy in life!.
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ok this is gonna sound like, weird!. BUT TRUST ME, its a good solution!. 1-800-suicide!.


sometimes you need someone to talk to!. they WILL listen!. they WILL give you advice on how to get your parents to bring you to a psychologist!. you are NOT weird, abnormal or anything of the sort!. a lot of kids DO go through this, and sometimes parents are stupid and won't listen!. but please, trust me, life is beautiful!. you can't see it now, but you will!. i promise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to go talk to somebody professional or a minister if nothing else so that someone can get across to your mother just how bad your situation is!. Find an adult you trust and TALK!. Otherwise you might wind up dead and that is NOT the answer to your problems!.
Suicide is permanent solution to a temporary problem!.
You need professional medical assistance ASAP!. Do it today!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please go to the school counselor, if they wont listen go to another trusted adult at school!. They legally have to do something to help you!. Sometimes people have chemical imbalances in ur brain that make u act and feel that way!. You need some meds and counseling!. I'm sorry ur mom wont listen to u!. Try to hold on and let someone know at the school!. Hopefully they will help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should talk to a school counselor or someone they can help you!.
You need to talk to someone about it, anyone at all!. Dying is never the answer no matter how much you think it is!.
Please stay safeWww@Answer-Health@Com

Well why would you cut your self because you depressed the only person who could help you is you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to take LSD!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well!.!.!. try to get a set of friends that are related to you!. ( depression wise )

Stop cutting your wrist!.!.!. do you really wanna kill your self!? I mean!.!. once your dead !.!. you're dead!. No more laughter!. No more friends!. No more ANYTHING!. Do not !. I repeat do not kill yourself! You have just started 6th grade or 7th grade, you have a lot of life left!. I am in 7th, and I have never went through that so your mom is lying to your face!. Tell her you need help!. Tell her now!. Tell her you posted this on Y!A!. She will now see that you are really committed to trying to not be depressed!. She should, if she is a kind mom, see will try to a therapist!.
Hope you do what mostly everyone is saying!.!.!.!.!. have a good life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all-STOP CUTTING!! Most girls go thru this phase but the cutting has to stop!. Its not helping anything and it'll make your situation worse! See your guidance counselor in school-they are trained in helping and even talk to your parents if you wish!. As for fitting in, if everything was suppose to fit, we'd all be wearing a size 6 and jigsaw puzzle pieces would be square! Look around, you'll find people sitting alone during lunch, ask to sit with them and make conversation, have your friends join in-start a network of meeting other kids and joining yours, how about school sports or clubs, volunteering at the animal or people shelter after school!.!.!.!. right now, you are just spinning and spiraling on yourself when you should be breaking out and going into the world!. You need a purpose- a good one- where you want to get your hinney out bed!. You need to look for that tree branch and pull yourself out of the quicksand so you can help others pull themselves out too!. I did!. Good luck, Sweetie!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some of the previous posters have suggested you see a counselor in school and I have to agree!. Here is the thing, since your mother won't take you to see a counselor you have to be the one to take the first step!. Since you are in school you have the perfect opportunity to seek out the help on your own!. The counselor should be able to help you assess what is going on and at least make a determination if you need to get some counseling outside of school!. They should also help you talk to your parents about getting the right kind of help!. There is nothing worse than feeling horrible and not having the support of your parents to get the right kind of help, especially when you are asking for it!. When I was 16 I was really depressed, I sought the help of a teacher!. She was able to intervene and speak to my guidance counselor!. She referred me to the school social worker and he was able to pin point what was going on with me!. He was able to have my mother come to the school and explain to her that I was clinically depressed, he also helped me find a therapist outside of school!. It definitely worked well for me because I was terrified to talk to my mom about how depressed I was!. Check out how you can talk to someone at school, it will be a great first step!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ive done it, i was new to middle school last yer!. i cut my wrists, all the time!. my grades slipped, i had all the same problems!. i was able to stop when i just started to talk to anyone, it may seem random, but its how you make friends!. but for me still the cutting didnt stop, my friends were able to convince me to step, but it was still hard at school!. i worked on my grades all the time, but i didnt get anywhere!. ask your teachers for help on something, its dorky but it helps!. and just being my toatlly abnormal random self, i was able to make tons of new friends!. im shy, but i had to get past it for just a little bit, just enough to go over to someone and say, hi!. it works, try it, there are always lots of other kids in middle school that are having problems!. and if your grades are that bad, ask for a tutor, i was failing 3 classes, math, LA/reading, and science!. a tutor really helped!. go do something about the problems, dont be shy, just go and give it your all!. you will see good results in the end:)
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you care enough about yourself to ask for help!. thats a good start!.I went though some of the stuff you have!.I wish I would of gotton help alot sooner!.it sounds as though depession and anxiety have gotton pretty hard for you to cope with!.find some proffessional that you trust and honesty let him/her know whats going on with you!.there are some really good meds to treat this condition and theres alot of others that are going through the same thing!.the last thing you want to do is harm yourself because you can be happy!.then you can help others that need you!.don't give up!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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