Why did it have to be me?!


Question: Why did it have to be me!?
i'm really depressed why me i have fell out with a friend i don't want to see him ever again i feel as if nothing good has ever come my way i get dumped with all the bad situations i hate it
my mum divorced 3 times (different people) my friend hates me and i hate him and i really want a boyfriend who will listen to me TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT I NEED HELPWww@Answer-Health@Com


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stick some uplifting tunes on, think back on all those happy memories you have come to forget about and smothered amongst all the crap you are going through!. Try to think of those positive times, the last time you laughed, the times where you have helped someone else, the last time you felt excitement about something, anything that triggered your positive emotions!. i know it's really very hard when you feel like this, but not impossible, you DO have positive memories, because what would you have to compare things to!? how would you know you are going through a bad time when you don't have good times to compare it with!?

Then think of all the people who are currently in your situation, or even in a worse situation!. You are obviously going through an upsetting and mentally challenging time!. It's the way you see the situation that determines how you feel about it, and even the way you deal with it!. So far all you see now is the negative!. Imagine how much better you will be able to deal with your situation when you are mentally strong!. It hurts like ****!. But you know, you are going to get through this, and you're going to learn from it, and believe it or not you're going to gain from it!. Don't ever think differently, only those who give in do!. What is the point in that when you know you only live once!?

wish you all the best
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It may not help but you should realise that there are many, many people going through rough times - and some much worse than the likes of you or me!. What you've been through is rough and you're feeling a lot of rejection but don't start thinking you're bringing this on yourself - that's when a spiral of deep depression starts and it's very difficult to get out of!. You should realise that life is basically **** - even for those who seem to have everything so smoothly!. A good friend of mine and his wife have just lost their son and both of them have lost their jobs in the same week - the point is that when we feel down we need to put things into perspective and realise just how lucky we are!. Take care and I hope things get better for you xWww@Answer-Health@Com

If this is all that is worrying you,then you are very lucky!. I know this might sound a bit harsh but have a real think about it and you will see that I am right!. I know it's a bit harsh about your mum but at least she has tried to make it better!. Perhaps it would be a good thing to chat to a girl friend , usually boy friends don't want to be saddled with all your problems, espeacially in a new relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

These are challenging times for everyone; God hasn't picked you out for Doom!.

Friends fall out all the time!.!.!.give yourselves sometime to breathe, then come together again to talk!.!.!.that's how mature people deal with their differences!.

You must learn to EXPECT the good along with the bad, and count all the good things God has put into your life today!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

why did you break up with your friend
can you reconcile the differences if not make some new friends
don't worry about your mother she can handle getting divorced

just chill out listen to music go out to the park or something and Just let your worries away

if you need someone to talk to then talk to your mother she will be able to help

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I have also been going through awful depression and anxiety my whole life!. I am now weaning off of Cymbalta and onto Prozac!. I had to leave a full time teaching job to substitute teach!. I can barely do that anymore!. I'm only 47!. I have 2 days scheduled for this week to work!. Please say a prayer that I make it in!.!.!.!.!.!.I just don't know what to do and I'm so sick of these medications!.

email me if you like!.!.!.!.I am female age 47 CA!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are simply down in the dumps about losing a friendship, give it time you will heal just don't get depressed about it!. Find things to do to keep yourself busy and keep your mind off of things!. It works!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Things look bad now, but believe me things will get better things will never be bad forever!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

bad things happen to good people,you get over it eventually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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