Why am i so hollow and empty ?!


Question: Why am i so hollow and empty !?
i have have been rejected by so many girls thought that's normal and i don't care anymore, i have sit yesterday where i felt a bit hollow, i could not go to sleep, i when to my memory box from high school i wanted to look for that spark in me that i have lost, i started to think and analyze my high school pictures i was smiling in a lot of them though i always kept a neutral smile, i cant seem to find the spark i had that made myself happy!. i have been through 2 hard relationships i thought id find it on this friend i liked but all there is going between us is friction!. but that's not the point, the main issue is that i feel hollow and empty, i don't have friends as much as before!. and my best female friend has a boyfriend, so yea i have lost track of her, which i am sad and mad at her for not even have the guts to call me or ask me how i am in msn, she just pretends like nothing happen, i guess shes just busy and dose not realize it at all, but i'm not well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The only person that can truly answer this question is you!. What was it that made you so happy to be alive in High School!? Was it your ambition, pride, friends!.!.!. Think back to what really put a smile on your face!. I'm sure it wasn't bad relationships that ruined your life!. I'm probably about your age, and I recently went through the same problem!. I wasn't sure what I wanted in life, and my life didn't feel fulfilled!. I kept thinking it was that I didn't have that special someone anymore, but I finally realized that it was me!. I was really upset about the huge change, and how I didn't talk to my High School friends anymore!. One day, I just got up and made new friends, created a new ambition for myself, and even though I still don't have a boyfriend!.!.!. I'm really happy!. You just need to find what makes YOU happy!. Best of Luck to you, and I hope you find what makes you happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know how you feel!. Know that you are not alone!. I look back through my highschool year-books and it occurs to me that I never really was happy!. I'm trying to change though, just by remembering that everyone is equal, and that I am just as worthy of everything as everyone else! Rah Rah Me! Rah Rah You!Www@Answer-Health@Com

just start a conversation with your friend and just bring up that you like her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

And how are you hanging on to this feeling!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Went through the same thing myself man, best idea is just to absorb yourself in something for a few hours, and telling yourself:

After tonight / this tv show / this book / whatever / etc I will stop being dishonest with myself and everyone else!. I will confess to the girl I like, I will answer all questions asked of me honestly, and I will acknowledge that friends made in this fashion will be a lot better for me than the apathetic bunch i'm hanging out with (or not hanging out with, I was a loner) right now!.
After telling yourself this, stick to it!.
I didn't even notice back then that i was a depressed homophobic kid, and now I'm happy to say I have a few close and great friends, 2 of which are openly gay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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