Am i making a big deal about being depressed about this situation of mine? ?!


Question: Am i making a big deal about being depressed about this situation of mine!? !?
I'm 23 right now!. I been trying for 7 MONTHS to find a job!. I know i made big mistakes in my past!. I would get jobs and quit them faster then you can think!. I took all that time for granted!. I was 16 when i first got my first job!. I've had about 9 job since then!. What;s worst is that the longest i;ve stayed at a job was 4 months! i know, what a looser you might think!. The last job i had was in 2006!. i quit my last job because i "felt sick to my stomach" not knowing i was pregnant with my daughter!. i thought the damn job was making me sick!. LIL
I think i have some kind of curse now!. I know now how IMPORTANT it is to have a job in this world, i did;t know back then, all i saw was black and white!. All i did was party !. party, party!.I never had a stable home!. i don't know, i guess i was searching for something that i couldn't find anywhere!.

Now i see my life in color !.But, i need a job to support my daughter and help my husband with our bills!.

I don't know what to do, i have gone back to school to get my G!.E!.D, all i need is my math test then ill be done!.

what can i do to go around my job history when applying for job!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Actually, your best bet would be not to try going around your job history!. Try being completely honest with the person who interviews you, if they happen to ask!. Or consider mentioning it up front- that yes, the history is spotty, because you were young, irresponsible and stupid!. We all of us have been there at some point, and can identify with it!. Finish the GED process, and then go for the job!. And be honest!. So growing up took you a bit- at least you did do it!. Some of the folks out there are even older, and haven't managed yet!. Just be honest, most folks actually do respond well to that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, get your g!.e!.d first,then maybe get a part time job to help your husband,but I recommend junior college!.I know you have a baby,but it will only benefit you in the long run,start slow,one class so you have time to study!.A lot of jobs are hiring part time right now because of the economy!. good luck Www@Answer-Health@Com

we'll you have had alot of jobs which is a good thing, not a bad!.You might not be fond of lying but, you can just say you took the years off cos you were having a baby!. I think your C!.V should look real good!.!.
i'm not sure if you actually have to by law say the dates you worked anymore!. i think you worry to much, just get back on the horse and gallop!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com

get the math test done and then look for a job!.!.keep your chin up, times alittle tough right nowWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just be honest with prospective employers on the application!. List your last 3 jobs or whatever you have to and be truthful!. If in the interview, they ask why you haven't been working then you tell them you took time off to care for your family for a while!. If they question your job hopping then just tell them that you are more mature now and have learned how important working and being loyal to a company is!. Just finish your math test for your GED and maybe you could apply for nursing school or some kind of vocation!. Maybe even beauty school!. They have grants that you can apply for!. Just email me if you have questions on how to do that!. But you can get Pell Grants that you don't have to pay back ever and you can almost certaintly get all your tuition and books with thousands left over to spend on gas and food and living!. Get you a small part time job at a place you know you can get hired and start going back to school!. Nursing degrees only take 2 years to get and some trades only take 9 months to get certified!. You need something though if you plan on taking care of your family!. Def!. go bk to school tho!. It's the strongest hope for your future and it will set a good example for your daughter!. I understand what it's like to be young and carefree but then one day you wake up and the fog is gone and you see reality as it is and realize that you have priorities!. Don't sit around being depressed!. You need to just take action and move forward!. Really-if you need help, just send me an email and I'll tell you how to do whatever it is you are trying to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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