Why do I hate being around people?!
Question: Why do I hate being around people!?
What can I do to stop hating everyone!. I hate myself, I hate the pointlessness of everything, and I hate everyone I'm surrounded with!. Everybody thinks I'm depressed, including my doctors, but could it simply be a matter of opinion!? I am suicidal, but I would never follow through because of what it would do to the people that are around me!. I just want some tips so that I can move on today, rather than waiting months for me to discover what's "really" going on with my psychologist!.
Any help would be greatly appreciated!.
Thank you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Any help would be greatly appreciated!.
Thank you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You obviously don't hate the people around you because you care enough not to hurt them by committing suicide!. Life is basically a game that you can't quit, you can just keep trying until it's over!. Some obstacles are harder than others and you just have to try not to get overwhelmed!. Take everything one day at a time!. Everyone goes through a slump from time to time, and some people more than others, but you will get over it, and it makes you stronger!. Though on the bright side it prepares you for harder things down the road that you will be able to handle better than others, because I used to be the same way, I went through a LOT of bad stuff for a long period of time, but now I handle situations a lot better than people around me because they've been lucky and haven't been through so much, but now it looks like I'm the lucky one!. ;) Good luck with it, hang in there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel exactly like that!.!.It's very troubling too, because personally I don't know what to do about it!. Every friend I've had has stabbed me in the back, even when I'm nothing but nice to them!. I'm nothing but nice to everybody, yet I still get ignored!. Nobody ever wants to hang out with me or anything!. The only advice I've ever gotten for it was to just toughen up and keep going!. That there "are" good people out there!. That is much easier said than done, though!. I can't kill myself for the same reasons!.!. the best I can do when I feel like I hate everybody is to just think about the few people I don't hate, and how much they mean to me!. It does help a little bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make a list of things you are thankful for!. And things that are good about you!. (Smart, good grades, nice hair etc things like that) and put it onto post it notes, scatter them around your room in places where you go to reguarly so you have to see them!. And hopefully that should build your self esteem (I read it in a book, never actually tried it myself though) and the first step to liking other is liking yourself!. Hope that helps!? =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel the same way you do but I hide it from everyone!. What helps me is to focus on what my task is at the time!. I go to work and I concentrate on work; I listen to music that helps distract me; I watch movies - anything to distract my mind!. I'm always told how nice I am but I'm really not that nice inside; I'm told I don't seem confident and I'm not really confident - I don't know how to fix that!. anyway, hope that helps - distractions!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you don't hate everybody cause you just said you wouldn't commit suicide because of how it would effect other people!. I think you're just confused!. hate is a strong word!. think about what it means!. there are many good things in life just waiting on you!. don't let them pass you by with negative thinking!.
I really wish you the best
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I really wish you the best
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ask yuourself!. are you happy with your life!? what ur doing on a daily basis!. i dont know how old u r or anything!. but if your 18+ are you happy in your job!? have you got a job!? do you feel you lead a fulfilling life!?
sometimes when we hate our lives, we think we hate people!. its not!. were just bitter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes when we hate our lives, we think we hate people!. its not!. were just bitter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
because people suck!!!! i feel the same way!.!.!. you probably need antidepressants!.!.!. i know i do! but i dont want to take them!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can't tell you why you hate people, but I can share what has made me hate being aroung people!. I have been sh*t on so many times from "close best friends" and even complete strangers!. Even though I have a fabulous dream job, safe home, a man that wants to marry me, well, I just can't seem to believe that I deserve happiness!. So I start hating myself and take all that anger I hold onto on everyone else which results in "hatred mode"!. It is just so negative!. I do not feel depressed but inside my head I am just so mad!. Even when things are good, I don't trust anyone around me and hate that I have to even try to function in this messed up society on a daily basis!. As far as moving on!.!.!.I still try!. I think about how my negative hateful attitude affects others and myself!. I try to give others the benefit of the doubt but I can only take baby steps!. You can't change overnight, especially if you don't want to!. At least you recognize the problem which shows hope!. I hope I helped a little!. If anything!.!.!.!.you are not alone on this one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com