PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED.... ?!


Question: PLEASE HELP ME IM CONFUSED!.!.!.!. !?
Before i was simple, contented, lots of ppl like me for who i am, i also know myself, what i like and not!.!. Until i realized that i am actually pretty good lookin!.!. my appearance changed, lots of ppl were attracted to me!.!. i became confindent w/ my appearance but at the same time issues about fake personalities began, competing w/ friend issues began, trust issues began eventually turned into low self esteem!.!.!. and now im regretting that i became one of the "it' girls!.!.!. what do u think happened!? help me!.!.!. in the first place was i wrong for letting the "good looking" get into my head!?!!?!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I think you might have lost sight of the true simple you!.
I think it is OK to know that you are attractive but it's not OK to compete with friends using your attractiveness to undermine others!.
Maybe you didn't do this!. Just remember to be humble and respect others!. Let the kind part of you show through!. People will be attracted to this!. Best Wishes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just because you are pretty on the outside doesn't mean that you are beautiful on the inside, and that's were it matters the most!.
If you were the one starting all of these issues, shame on you, but if you weren't and it was your "friends" then you should pick better friends!. Friends that actually care about you and not what you might look like!.
You can be a very pretty person but at the same time be the ugliest person to walk the earth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should have used the compliments to build your self esteem but never changed who you were!. Alot of people like you (from what you say) before you changed your personality!. I know me and alot of other people don't like people who always are revolving the world around them!.

A big thing that I always believed though is you are who you are and if everyone was the same this place would be very boring!. Just be yourself and have respect and consideration for everyone around you!. Say thank you and have a good day to everyone!. Smile even when you don't feel like it!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Like me, you thought you'd be happier with something else and found out that it doesn't and can't satisfy you!. You must be a human being!.

I'm a fine one to be offering suggestions -- I can't even help myself -- but maybe you could consciously focus on the part of you that really matters, that helped you be happy before!. If you want a friend, be a friend, not a pin-up model!. The latter approach attracts lots of toads, not princes!.

We can't take our money, our possessions, our social status, our popularity, or our good looks with us when we die -- after a million years, nobody will really care what we look like!. The only things we can take with us are the love that our friends have for us and the good (and the evil) that we did in this life!.

(Pride leads us to do silly things sometimes!. Maybe it is a mistake to think we are better or prettier or smarter or more powerful or deserving than other people!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't know I hanged wit the stoners not the popular girls!.


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