How can you boost self confidence?!
Question: How can you boost self confidence!?
I have zilch confidence, although I used to model!.
I'm fed up, everyone thinks I'm ugly, or at least I think they do!.
When guys look at me, I always think they must be thinking i'm a munter!.
It's got to the point were I get upset at College because of it!.
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I'm fed up, everyone thinks I'm ugly, or at least I think they do!.
When guys look at me, I always think they must be thinking i'm a munter!.
It's got to the point were I get upset at College because of it!.
What are some ways to boost your confidence!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm an ordinary woman like you, I'm no expert but I'm going through some similar feelings!. Being a woman is hard, we put so much pressure on ourselves to do well in everything, to look good, to please everyone, to be accepted, to be funny, smart, to be the mother, the lover, the counselor, the bread winner, the sister, the house keeper, the accountant, the party planner, the home maker, the list goes on and on!
But there will always be people in our lives that may pull us down un-knowingly, that may test are resilience, normally out of their own jealousy or with their own pressures or insecurities, no wonder we fall apart at some point, we're not Wonder Woman for bleedin sake!! (although we wish we were) we all have the same fears and insecurities, it's how we handle them that makes a difference and differentiates us from others, easier said than done though!.
There are lots of things you can do to boost your confidence but they may only be a boost, it won't necessarily help you get over your problem/s permanently so you really need to look at what is best for you!.
I'm having confidence and self esteem issues and I've been looking at pure hypnoanalysis to help me and I've just had my first session today!. It's not the hypnotherapy that you or I have heard of before, this is different, so have a look and decide for yourself: http://www!.successfulhypnotherapy!.com/hy!.!.!.
It might seem a tad drastic, it isn't something you decide to do on a whim and it's not a magic wand unfortunately! Believe me, it's taken me a while to get here but it really isn't drastic at all, this is your life and you want to be happy and make the most of it and that is what's really important!. How can other people that are around you feel good and happy in your presence if you can't be happy in yourself, they feel the same as you and me sometimes!.
I could talk about my reasons for feeling low and I could tell you what I think might be the solutions for you, but I can't, I can only advise, it's up to you, everyone is different and it depends on what has made you feel like this, I can't tell you how to get over this, it has to be you and believe me that is the hardest step and something that I'm working on myself right now!. You've already taken the first step by posting this question, you're not alone!!
If you really don't think hypnoanalysis is right for you or you're unsure of what to do, then I can recommend a couple of books, one that I'm reading at the moment which has been a big help is a book called 'Positive Thinking' by Vera Peiffer, also a book called 'Being happy' by Andrew Mathews, it has little summary's of the chapters in it called 'In a nutshell'!. which are really useful for quick reference!.
I hope I've been some help, I can't pretend to feel what you're feeling as I've no idea of your history or past, we all have issues, no matter how insignificant they may seem, but they all matter, they are what make you the person you are now!. I started with some books so maybe have a look at the ones I've suggested and go from there and see what's right for you, it's a good start!.
Let me know how you get on and I hope it all works out for you
C
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But there will always be people in our lives that may pull us down un-knowingly, that may test are resilience, normally out of their own jealousy or with their own pressures or insecurities, no wonder we fall apart at some point, we're not Wonder Woman for bleedin sake!! (although we wish we were) we all have the same fears and insecurities, it's how we handle them that makes a difference and differentiates us from others, easier said than done though!.
There are lots of things you can do to boost your confidence but they may only be a boost, it won't necessarily help you get over your problem/s permanently so you really need to look at what is best for you!.
I'm having confidence and self esteem issues and I've been looking at pure hypnoanalysis to help me and I've just had my first session today!. It's not the hypnotherapy that you or I have heard of before, this is different, so have a look and decide for yourself: http://www!.successfulhypnotherapy!.com/hy!.!.!.
It might seem a tad drastic, it isn't something you decide to do on a whim and it's not a magic wand unfortunately! Believe me, it's taken me a while to get here but it really isn't drastic at all, this is your life and you want to be happy and make the most of it and that is what's really important!. How can other people that are around you feel good and happy in your presence if you can't be happy in yourself, they feel the same as you and me sometimes!.
I could talk about my reasons for feeling low and I could tell you what I think might be the solutions for you, but I can't, I can only advise, it's up to you, everyone is different and it depends on what has made you feel like this, I can't tell you how to get over this, it has to be you and believe me that is the hardest step and something that I'm working on myself right now!. You've already taken the first step by posting this question, you're not alone!!
If you really don't think hypnoanalysis is right for you or you're unsure of what to do, then I can recommend a couple of books, one that I'm reading at the moment which has been a big help is a book called 'Positive Thinking' by Vera Peiffer, also a book called 'Being happy' by Andrew Mathews, it has little summary's of the chapters in it called 'In a nutshell'!. which are really useful for quick reference!.
I hope I've been some help, I can't pretend to feel what you're feeling as I've no idea of your history or past, we all have issues, no matter how insignificant they may seem, but they all matter, they are what make you the person you are now!. I started with some books so maybe have a look at the ones I've suggested and go from there and see what's right for you, it's a good start!.
Let me know how you get on and I hope it all works out for you
C
Www@Answer-Health@Com
Smile!. Shy and seductive!.
Confidence comes from input, not out put!.
If your getting complemented allot, asked out, guy's buy you drinks or whatever!. This boost confidence!. If you taking in the opposite, It will destroy your confidence!.!.
Try being outward, helpful, sharing, laugh, get involved, the more your noticed the better your chances,
This is why in the entertainment industry they say ,"any advertisement is good advertisement"!.
Always project you have just won the lotto, or you've got the greatest lover in the world, Or your horse just got first place, Something really great just happened to you!. This draws people in like a magnet!. Everybody wants a piece of a good time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Confidence comes from input, not out put!.
If your getting complemented allot, asked out, guy's buy you drinks or whatever!. This boost confidence!. If you taking in the opposite, It will destroy your confidence!.!.
Try being outward, helpful, sharing, laugh, get involved, the more your noticed the better your chances,
This is why in the entertainment industry they say ,"any advertisement is good advertisement"!.
Always project you have just won the lotto, or you've got the greatest lover in the world, Or your horse just got first place, Something really great just happened to you!. This draws people in like a magnet!. Everybody wants a piece of a good time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i have the same problem but im said to be the hottest guy in our school says most girls i meet and even some guys tell me this!. but then i think how is that possible i have the worste acne ive ever seen and im skinny but people insist what helps be is i just be myself and just say i dont care whenever i think someone is talking crap about me i dont know what you think but i think im exactly the same as you i would like to talk more if you dont mind just add me and ill try to get hold of you somehow good luck!. and you were a stinking model you have to look good!.
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Your internal dialog is the most important thing!. come up with a couple of montra's and say them to yourself over and over and over again!.When you feel bad try saying it 50 times something really positive!. you can brain wash yourself to believe anything!. good or bad!. we create our own experiences in life!. You could go to YOutube and type in the secret and watch the first 20 mins of the secret and find out about the law of atrraction!. it is kinda cool!. works too!. try to give yourself a break!. be nice to yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make a list of all the things you like about yourself, like maybe you have pretty eyes or great legs, or a great sence of humor!. When you start to feel bad about yourself look at your list!. Go buy a new dress, or pair of shoes - something that will make you feel sexy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Believe in yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
believe that u can do anything that u want to do like wearing nice clothes n taking time to do ur hairWww@Answer-Health@Com