I don't like sex, nothing typically traumatic has happened to me, so what!
Question: I don't like sex, nothing typically traumatic has happened to me, so what's wrong!?
I've not been raped nor molested or abused in any manner!. I've just never really liked it!. Is there something wrong with me!? I'm a healthy 30 year old mom of two!. Am I really going through menopause or something THIS early in life!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Some people can take it or leave it!. Doesn't mean you are a freak!. There is a spectrum of "whats normal" - you are on it somewhere!.
We tend not to talk about people with that kind of sex drive, instead focusing on the people who want it all the time, and people who dont have any desire - and somehow people who are indifferent get left out of the conversation
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We tend not to talk about people with that kind of sex drive, instead focusing on the people who want it all the time, and people who dont have any desire - and somehow people who are indifferent get left out of the conversation
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You never liked it !? Or it has changed and NOW you don't like it !? Do you like masturbation !? Can you orgasm !? There are a million reasons possible!. You don't feel bonded to your mate !? You are stressed out and overwhelmed being a parent !? You mentally associate sex with possibility of more kids !? Your mate is poor in bed !? You are poor in bed!? You have a low libido due to hormone deficiency!? You have a personality that doesn't like close interpersonal contact !? You can't have an orgasm !? You need intense clitoral stimulation to orgasm !? You mate's equipment isn't big enough !? You can only orgasm through oral sex !? You are a latent homosexual "trying to pass" as a hetero !? You can't be sure that you were never molested/raped due to the effectiveness of denial processes - some women only "remember" traumas in their early 40's after their kids are established and they can 'afford" to fall apart/remembering!. This guessing game can go on forever!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry but I cannot see any wrong with you for not feeling so much for sex!.
A lot of people (male as well as females) feels the same and!.!.!. I must confess that I think people who do not like sex have right!.
I mean!.!.!. What is sex!?
For me the romance must be first!.!.!. Holding hands, sharing the same spaghetti, the first kiss!.!.!. You know what I mean!?
Then, when the moment is right, my and my beloved allow our souls to meet in a firing dance called love!.
However, it is not easy to be married and not feeling for sex!. - You feel obliged to make your partner happy!. - Perhaps a beginning then could be to talk about the feelings!. Try to arrange romantical happenings!. Taking bubble bath together, a pic nic on a summer field sitting under an old oak saying romantical words to each other!.!.!. Then the desire might come back!.
Shortly said!.!. Do not hesitate to use the imagination!.
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A lot of people (male as well as females) feels the same and!.!.!. I must confess that I think people who do not like sex have right!.
I mean!.!.!. What is sex!?
For me the romance must be first!.!.!. Holding hands, sharing the same spaghetti, the first kiss!.!.!. You know what I mean!?
Then, when the moment is right, my and my beloved allow our souls to meet in a firing dance called love!.
However, it is not easy to be married and not feeling for sex!. - You feel obliged to make your partner happy!. - Perhaps a beginning then could be to talk about the feelings!. Try to arrange romantical happenings!. Taking bubble bath together, a pic nic on a summer field sitting under an old oak saying romantical words to each other!.!.!. Then the desire might come back!.
Shortly said!.!. Do not hesitate to use the imagination!.
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Sorry to butt in!.!.!.!.!.!.!. I am a guy but never seriously thought even this was possible!. I know some people get really religious and drop the whole physical intimacy idea and are not attracted to it anymore!. But you should try to enojy it with your significant other!. Hope you!.!.!.!.um!.!.!.make out!.!.!.!.!.I mean make it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It shouldn't be a physical fact, only a physical representation of something far more spiritual!. That will be able to unite your husband and you with a loving stable family life!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Some people just don't desire sex!. You're probably just run down!. If you're uncomfortable about it, talk to your doctor, counselor, or gynecologist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's normal!. I temporarily lost my sex drive when my children were really small and when I was breast feeding!. It comes back with a vengeance though, don't worry ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hormones!.Www@Answer-Health@Com