What wAm I wrong from holding on to old pictures even though we are divorced?oul!


Question: What wAm I wrong from holding on to old pictures even though we are divorced!?ould you like to ask!?

I recently divorced!.!.I am even going through a nasty custody battle with my sons father!.!. I am happy being single I am more happier now then when I was married!. However I have a hard time throwing away old pictures of us!.!.!. I am thinking about having a divorce ritual party to let go of whatevers that making me want to hold on to those pictures!.!.!. Do you know why I have a sense to want to hold on to those memories!?!?!? I hate to destoy them because I do not regret my past!.!. So whats the problem!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Please do not destroy them!. I kept my wedding album and family pictures for my children when they are adults!. Those are precious memories for your children!. If you do feel the need to have a "letting go" ceremony, then pick one picture to burn!. I understand the need to let go but make sure you keep some for your children!. Hope I helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The pictures still hold memories for you - and I agree!. Keep some of the pictures for when your son is older!. Box them up along with the baby clothes & whatever, and store them away!. If there are some of just the two of you - that might be too personal for the child - wait until you don't have him one weekend - light a bonfire, get a good glass of wine - and burn 'em! Toast you new life - and ashes to the old!. (although with a child together, you will always be tied) Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

dont destroy them!.!.u should just pack them away!.!.!.i was with someone for almost 8 years!.!.!.and i decided to keep the pics!.!.!.we were together for a long time and i didnt want to forget the memories of our life!.!.!.(even tho it went bad and i ended the relationship)!.!.!.our life together and the memories i have of him have made me a better person and i am much stronger too!. just pack them away and at a later time when u are feeling better you will be glad you have them and u will realize what a much stronger person u have become!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, why should you get rid of pictures of your memories!? OK, things haven't worked out!. People change!. Situations make people behave differently and can bring out the bad side in people's characters!. Let's be honest, we can all be mean when we need to or want to be!.

However, you obviously married him for a reason!. You obviously had something at some point!.!.!.!.not least of all your sons! You could get rid of the pictures and reminders of what you had, but you can't erase the memories, you can only try to come to terms with what has happened!. So, honestly, I would box the pictures up and when the pain has eased (which it will in time) you will be able to look back at them with or without your sons and remember a huge chunk of your life which was good! You may regret it if you do get rid of them!. Just remember that it's raw and painful at the moment, it wont always be like that!.

Good luck!.!.!.there's nothing wrong with you! You are allowed to go through all sorts of emotions, especially grief and anger!. Try not to be so hard on yourself for being confused, we'd all be the same in your position! You're only human!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Who or what says there is a NEED to destroy family pictures!?

Your sons lived those years, and have every right to have family pictures to hold on to!.!.!.to show their sons in the future!.!.!.of what life and family was like, of the people they loved, places you-all went, and that first fish they caught!.

These are your precious memories too!. Don't let the poor behavior of one family member poison your treasured times with your sons!. Box them up, put them away for a few years, or make albums for each of your sons, and one for yourself!.!.!.or a family memory book numbering the years and the memories!. If someone says anything negative about it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.say you're not letting any one person's bad behavior ruin the memories of history-in-the-making for your family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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