Why can't I shut the f**k up?!?!?!
Question: Why can't I shut the f**k up!?!!?!!?
So, I used to be a pretty normal, with-it person!. Definitely type-A perfectionist, but at least I could hold it together with other people!.
I put myself through so much stress in college (3 degrees in 4 years, working full-time to pay for it b/c my doctor father who makes $600,000/yr refused to do so) that I literally went insane!. Like, completely nutty psycho!. I can see that now, but at the time my struggles and problems felt real to me!.
Anyhow, the bad habit I developed in college is "spilling my guts" to anyone and everyone!. EVERYTHING!. I think it's b/c I have terrible parents and I never a) had a good relationship with them and b) never learned to "detach" from them (I've read up on all the Freudian psychology with this)!.
I've totally ruined my life with my inability to keep my g-damned mouth shut!.
I've learned to better control it, but I'm still suffering consequences from my stupid blabber over the past 6 years, which just makes me so angry and depressed with myself that I want to "spill my guts" again about how angry I am that I "spilled my guts" in the first place!.
Can someone either shoot me or teach me how to sew my damned lips shut!? God I hate myselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
I put myself through so much stress in college (3 degrees in 4 years, working full-time to pay for it b/c my doctor father who makes $600,000/yr refused to do so) that I literally went insane!. Like, completely nutty psycho!. I can see that now, but at the time my struggles and problems felt real to me!.
Anyhow, the bad habit I developed in college is "spilling my guts" to anyone and everyone!. EVERYTHING!. I think it's b/c I have terrible parents and I never a) had a good relationship with them and b) never learned to "detach" from them (I've read up on all the Freudian psychology with this)!.
I've totally ruined my life with my inability to keep my g-damned mouth shut!.
I've learned to better control it, but I'm still suffering consequences from my stupid blabber over the past 6 years, which just makes me so angry and depressed with myself that I want to "spill my guts" again about how angry I am that I "spilled my guts" in the first place!.
Can someone either shoot me or teach me how to sew my damned lips shut!? God I hate myselfWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It sounds like you have some real anger toward your parents, and I would imagine that your overall need for acceptance is related to this!. I would think that you will continue to "spill your guts" in an attempt to gain some sort of acceptance and comfort from others until you actually deal with the anger you have toward your parents in a therapeutic way!. See a psychologist and process these issues!. All the best!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you really need someone to talk to about your issues with your parents - go see a therapist!!!
And try not to give TMI (too much information) to everyone, even if they're your friend!. Nobody wants to be around someone who complains about their life all the time!
Everyone has their own problems to deal with, believe me, you're not the only one who's going through Drama!.
Just go talk to someone and, oh yeah, get a reality check!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And try not to give TMI (too much information) to everyone, even if they're your friend!. Nobody wants to be around someone who complains about their life all the time!
Everyone has their own problems to deal with, believe me, you're not the only one who's going through Drama!.
Just go talk to someone and, oh yeah, get a reality check!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Step back and chill out you are way too hyper!.
Guilt is so not the thing to feel!.!.!.just forget that & let it go!.
Life is too short to worry about blabbing!. but whenever you get the urge just remember what you say can't be taken back & live with that!.
lots a luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Guilt is so not the thing to feel!.!.!.just forget that & let it go!.
Life is too short to worry about blabbing!. but whenever you get the urge just remember what you say can't be taken back & live with that!.
lots a luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
YA wasn't meant for rhetorical questions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are lashing out for attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
!.!.!.!.talk about emoWww@Answer-Health@Com
Keeping your mouth shut is pretty easy because you really don't have to do anything!. Just keep a lid on it!. Sooner or later you'll get pretty good at it!. I dunno, just give it some time and keep working at it!. Somebody that can get three degrees and work full time shouldn't have a problem working it out!.
Right now this problem is making you it's bee-yotch!.
It needs to be the other way around!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Right now this problem is making you it's bee-yotch!.
It needs to be the other way around!.Www@Answer-Health@Com