How can i help him out of his gangster life?!


Question: How can i help him out of his gangster life!?
I have been with my Fiance for almost 4 years, He is in a dangerous gang,(you could say there Gangsters)!.
I know it sounds ridiculous but i love him with everything i've got & i know he feels the same as he tells me everyday, He can really charm the pants off you!.
Im 25 and hes 27, Im also 3 months pregnant with his baby which he is delighted over, first child for us both!. The only thing is i really want him out of this gang and as he is heavily involved in this world i know it would be very hard, I just wish he would try!. He tells me he knows no other way of life but im willing to try show him! It scares me so much when hes out till the early hours doing god knows what with the others!. He predicts his own death which is terrifying i can never imagine my life without him, And i don't want to raise our baby without him being there!.
Please help me, i really need some advice as i cant talk to anyone about thisWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
It's not necessarily that once u're in u can't get out!. Many of my male cousins were in gangs until one of my cousins was killed(R!.I!.P!.) This opened up their eyes to realize gangs aren't worth it!. Does he work!? Does he hustle!? Do u know if he wants to get out!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Ask him to do it fou ur baby and for urself!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Long answer, pack up and move, both of you!. There is no other way to break his bad habit and get him away from the trouble he will be in once he quits the gang!. !.
Short answer, pack up and move, just you! If he wants you he will follow and if he doesn't, you've lost nothing you weren't going to lose anyway!.
Personally, I'd move without telling him, you don't need that gangster shi* in your life!. Think of the kid!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

he is in, and it seems he wants to stay in!. if you are thinking that your love, or your child will change that- you are very much mistaken!. if he wanted to leave the gang life, he would have!. now here you are-pregnant, and he is still in the gang- and it wont change- you sure picked the wrong guy to father your child- best of luck to you, but things wont change!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Once your gangster, YOU CAN'T GET OUT!.
Good luck!.
Always remember to tell your child that his/her daddy is a GANGSTA DADDYWww@Answer-Health@Com

Ask him to talk to someone for your babies sake!. If he says no then you will probably be better off raising you baby alone with out the bad influence!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well,
You might love him but you are indanger n so is ur baby!. U need to leave the country because he is in he will never get out think about yourself and now ur baby good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ONCE U GET IN
U DONT GET OUT!!
UNDERSTAND THAT UNLESS IF U GO TO SOME OTHER COUNTRY
GATHER SOME $$$ AND FLEEWww@Answer-Health@Com





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