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Question: Fuk!.!.!.People!.!.!.I think I'm in trouble!.!?
Please!. PLEASE!. Don't make fun of me!. I feel like I'm drowning and there is no one there to help me out of the water!. I have been diagnosed with a manic depressive disorder!. My father is a narrow minded, racist, born again, devout christian and i don't know how to tell him i am a lesbian so he will stop setting me up with guys!. My brother is the only one that knows and he has promised not to tell my mom although my sister came out and she was fine with it!. And my sister has a different dad!. Other then that, I hate the way my body looks and it wont change!. Every one puts me down and I don't think i can take it!. I'm 14 years old!. I have resorted to!.!.!.cutting myself *shudders* At first!.!.!.i was on my thigh!. I have a pocket knife collection!. But at first I really couldn't feel anything!. So i did it on my arm!. Now I have bandages all over my arm and people are asking questions!. It's not deep!. Just enough to draw blood!. And to top in off!.!.!.I was just diagnosed with anemia!. Can anyone help me!. Am I over reacting!. How do I come out!. Help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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god this sounds so terrible!. i know of someone who is a little older who had nearly all these problems!. i knew of her sexuality, she was bullied and she cut her thighs!.
you really need some help from someone, maybe the house hold environment you are living in is too much for you are there any relatives that could help you out!?!?!?
i dont think u are overreacting at all by the sound of it hun you have had some horrible family relstionships!. i think you need to tell a friend, i also think counceling is a good idea!. as for the cuts you dont have to explain yourself to anyone who will take the mick!.
please get some help from sombody
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you really need some help from someone, maybe the house hold environment you are living in is too much for you are there any relatives that could help you out!?!?!?
i dont think u are overreacting at all by the sound of it hun you have had some horrible family relstionships!. i think you need to tell a friend, i also think counceling is a good idea!. as for the cuts you dont have to explain yourself to anyone who will take the mick!.
please get some help from sombody
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manic-depressive disorder means bi-polar!.!.!.which means you have excessive mood swings!. you will be ok, just try to stay calm!. as you stated, you don't even know if you are gay, so give yourself time in life to figure this out-time!. talk to your doctor about your feelings!. anyway if you are bi-polar you should be receiving some sort of treatment!. please try to stop hurting yourself!.!.!.you are the only YOU you have!:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should talk to your family doctor because they can listen and help you with any problem you may have !. It is good to see your doctor also because you can have time to tell them everything on your mind !.
Your doctor is there to make you better and not to laugh at you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your doctor is there to make you better and not to laugh at you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Talk to your doctor!. Also you are only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you!. What seems like a big deal now won't seem so big later!.
Try talking to your mother also!. When you get down try to find something to take your mind off of things, like music or reading, or whatever!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try talking to your mother also!. When you get down try to find something to take your mind off of things, like music or reading, or whatever!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should go to a doctor!. and how do u know your a lesbian!? your only 14, and you should make that decsion when you are an adult, not that its any of my buisness!. and dont cut yourself anymore, and tell your dad!. he'll understand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No you are not overreacting!. I am sorry that you have to deal with all of this!. But there is no need to cut yourself!. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and so are you!. You need to be happy with yourself and how you look!. And about being a lesbian i wouldn't tell your dad that because he will judge you very harshly according to the way you described him!. since you want him to stop setting you up with guys you should tell him you are not ready for a "boyfriend" yet!. Then he will stop setting you up with guys, you should tell your mom about being gay and tell her not to tell your dad because it was hard for you to come out as it is!. Don't worry everything will work out!. Good luck sweetie!. ? Www@Answer-Health@Com
You said you have been diagnosed with manic depressive disorder!. So you do have a doctor!. Has he asked you about all your wounds/bandages!?if not change doctors!. Yea u def have some dpression going on and a lot of feelings inside that are bottled up if you are cutting yourself!. You need a good consouler and u will be amazed how getting this stuff off your chest will make you feel better!.with your sexuality I unlike some other commenters I think u can know exactly who u are at 14!. There is a chance though you could be confused with all the other problems and since your sis likes girls it could be misleading!. Only u know the answer to that!. I wouldn't worry about your dad to much!. I'm a Christian and the Bible teaches not to judge because then u will be judged!. He and I sin no different than u!. I think your mom needs to know these problems and you need to tell her u need her support and to help u find a consouler!. If u ever hit a low where u think of suicide remember that suicide is a permant fix for a temporaly problem!. Email me if u need someone to talk to!. God Bless!. I just read your extra details after writing all that!. Your dad is wrong!. He can't feel that way!. Hw is a bad example of the Love of Christ!. Pray young lady and the Lord will help u!. As for as the consoulers go that tell ur business that's not right!. Don't give up!. There's good ones out there!. Plese find the right oneWww@Answer-Health@Com