( preferably male answers) How do I prevent myself from slipping into insanity ?!
Question: ( preferably male answers) How do I prevent myself from slipping into insanity !?
Ok, so I have this problem ,where, basically , I can usually take correction , and disappointments in stride, and not get angry!. Recently however, I've been making so many mistakes that its really getting to me!.
I am supposed to be one of the brighter students in the college!. However, when it comes to chemistry laboratory exercises, I keep on making clumsy errors!. And both my lab teacher and my dad tell me,
"be a man, don't complain, and get it right the next time"
But the thing is, the next time, I still get it wrong!.
Its like a building up principle, at first I started out very confident, but now to my surprise my hands were shaking today!. I am not someone with shaky hands !
The thing is, its not a question of not knowing what I am doing, I know what I am supposed to do, but somehow I only see the mistake AFTER I've done it!.
I am trying not to let it get to me I really am, but the feeling of disappointment just won't go away!. I let things get to me, my blood is close to my skin, and I feel like an explosion waiting to happen!.
And I don't wanna say anything!. Because then people will say "you're getting on emo" or "man up" or "don't be such a p*ssy!."So as a result, I keep all this inside!.
I want this feelingto go away but I won't!.
My father says to have more confidence, but I don't know how you're supposed to build confidence from a history of failure!.
NOTE: as a side note, everything else in my life is fine, i'm still topping my tests otherwise, and I do have a girlfriend, so its not to say i am entirely impotent!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am supposed to be one of the brighter students in the college!. However, when it comes to chemistry laboratory exercises, I keep on making clumsy errors!. And both my lab teacher and my dad tell me,
"be a man, don't complain, and get it right the next time"
But the thing is, the next time, I still get it wrong!.
Its like a building up principle, at first I started out very confident, but now to my surprise my hands were shaking today!. I am not someone with shaky hands !
The thing is, its not a question of not knowing what I am doing, I know what I am supposed to do, but somehow I only see the mistake AFTER I've done it!.
I am trying not to let it get to me I really am, but the feeling of disappointment just won't go away!. I let things get to me, my blood is close to my skin, and I feel like an explosion waiting to happen!.
And I don't wanna say anything!. Because then people will say "you're getting on emo" or "man up" or "don't be such a p*ssy!."So as a result, I keep all this inside!.
I want this feelingto go away but I won't!.
My father says to have more confidence, but I don't know how you're supposed to build confidence from a history of failure!.
NOTE: as a side note, everything else in my life is fine, i'm still topping my tests otherwise, and I do have a girlfriend, so its not to say i am entirely impotent!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Is messing up chemistry lab experiments the only problem in your life!? I used to mess up chemistry and physics experiments all the time and I still made decent grades without too much trouble!. The only thing I can suggest is stop being a perfectionist and take it easy!. Do you have lab partners that could help you out!? I think you are working too much as an independent and need to learn how to accept help from others!. Also if you cannot cut the grade with the major you're doing you may want to try something else before you do go insane!. The other thing I can tell you is maybe start meditating to reduce stress in your life such as the experiments and your pushy father are causing!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
The problem with slipping into insanity is the first time your recognise it you are already on the slope and let's face it on the way down , just going really slowly at first, but there's no stopping now so just go with it and hope that as a mad professor in a few years time, people will start saying, wow, he wasn't wrong at all, all those experiments were right, how couldn't the people working with him see that!.!.!.!.!.!.!.
Or!.!.!.!.start drawing with coloured pencils now!.
Or!.!.!.!.run away with your girlfriend to another state, or country if you prefer, and get a job!. You definitely need to get away from those patronising advisers, who, sadly, are so boring, they are never going to be insane, ever, not even for an day, an hour even, whereas, you, clearly have as much potential as I have ever come across!. Just make it big!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or!.!.!.!.start drawing with coloured pencils now!.
Or!.!.!.!.run away with your girlfriend to another state, or country if you prefer, and get a job!. You definitely need to get away from those patronising advisers, who, sadly, are so boring, they are never going to be insane, ever, not even for an day, an hour even, whereas, you, clearly have as much potential as I have ever come across!. Just make it big!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com