Grief after death... denial?!
Question: Grief after death!.!.!. denial!?
My grandmother died on Halloween!. My dad had a stroke while waiting for her to die, I went back and forth from room to room and was there when she died!. My dad almost had a nervous breakdown!. So now my husband and I have temporarily moved in with him to watch him!. Also, my husband almost had a heart attack a couple days ago and a couple weeks before all of this started, we found out he needs open heart surgery to repair to defective valves or he'll be dead in a few years!. BUT we have no insurance!. So, it's difficult!.
okay, now my question is!.!.!.!. why don't I feel anything!? I'm grumpy and tired a little, but other that that!. I feel pretty normal - just weird!.
What's wrong with me!? And Am I going to completely flip later on!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
okay, now my question is!.!.!.!. why don't I feel anything!? I'm grumpy and tired a little, but other that that!. I feel pretty normal - just weird!.
What's wrong with me!? And Am I going to completely flip later on!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I can tell you this!.!.!.So many things are going on in your life that now you can not cry just yet, but soon you will!. Just make sure you have a shoulder to cry on when you do because you will be crying alot!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are absolutely normal!. You are experiencing a defense mechanism!. You know that things are really bad for you now and your mind has simply put on a survival mode for the time being and essentially in the early stages of denial!.
There are 5 stages of grief!. These are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance!. You will most likely go through these in order!.
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There are 5 stages of grief!. These are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance!. You will most likely go through these in order!.
For more, see link belowWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm no doctor, but yes I would say you are on "auto-pilot!." The grief is going to come one way or another!. You're not going to completely flip, but you will feel the pain--you have to!. If you can't afford to see a counselor, I would advise getting some books about dealing with grief!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
nothings wrong with you , maybe you will breakdown maybe not
sometimes its hard to accept and yes denial is normal it takes alot of energy to flip out your probably too drainedWww@Answer-Health@Com
sometimes its hard to accept and yes denial is normal it takes alot of energy to flip out your probably too drainedWww@Answer-Health@Com
everyone deals with grief differently!. maybe you feel nothing now, but later on you might!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
What i think is that you have had so much stress and so many deaths that your bodies emotions just shut down!.!.!. but what do i know im only 14Www@Answer-Health@Com