Why am i soo depressed.....anyway i can help it?!
Question: Why am i soo depressed!.!.!.!.!.anyway i can help it!?
every night i feel alone, under stress and depressed!.
ive had a terrible childhood, as my dad hasnt been there for me as he does stupid things and gets in trouble with the police therefore he cant see me!. i dont even think he wants to see me, or he would have stopped by now!. (its been going on since i was 2!.!.!.im 15 now) the last time he saw what i looked like, i was 9!. im a lot different now and he doesnt even know that im a tomboy and dont like girly things!.
my mum and step dad argue all the time!. whenever i have some sort of opinion about my step dad, i tell my mum, who then tels him!. which then ends up as a huge argument!. they always argue about my mum taking my side!. my step dad always says im the reason the family is screwed up, when i know its because of my little brother!.
my little brother - ever since he was 3, hes been really violent, and hurtful!. both mentally, emotionally and physically!. hes 9 now and i cant escape him at all!. i cant fight back - as im 6 yrs older and could kill him!. but if i sit there and do nothing, i get wound up to the point of breaking down and crying!.
my little sister isnt even 1yr old yet and im scared for her, and also my cat!. nobody is safe in my house, and i wish things were diferent!. we all pretend we are this perfect family but i know were not!.
sorry this has been such a long question, but i have such a screwed up life, it took up most of the page!.!.!.!.!.!. is there any way i can stop myself becoming so depressed!? why am i depressed!?
help
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ive had a terrible childhood, as my dad hasnt been there for me as he does stupid things and gets in trouble with the police therefore he cant see me!. i dont even think he wants to see me, or he would have stopped by now!. (its been going on since i was 2!.!.!.im 15 now) the last time he saw what i looked like, i was 9!. im a lot different now and he doesnt even know that im a tomboy and dont like girly things!.
my mum and step dad argue all the time!. whenever i have some sort of opinion about my step dad, i tell my mum, who then tels him!. which then ends up as a huge argument!. they always argue about my mum taking my side!. my step dad always says im the reason the family is screwed up, when i know its because of my little brother!.
my little brother - ever since he was 3, hes been really violent, and hurtful!. both mentally, emotionally and physically!. hes 9 now and i cant escape him at all!. i cant fight back - as im 6 yrs older and could kill him!. but if i sit there and do nothing, i get wound up to the point of breaking down and crying!.
my little sister isnt even 1yr old yet and im scared for her, and also my cat!. nobody is safe in my house, and i wish things were diferent!. we all pretend we are this perfect family but i know were not!.
sorry this has been such a long question, but i have such a screwed up life, it took up most of the page!.!.!.!.!.!. is there any way i can stop myself becoming so depressed!? why am i depressed!?
help
thanxWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sweetie, let me start with saying I am terribly sorry!. You're stepdad is wrong though, it is not your fault!. Know that!. Though he may feel you are re-opening the wounds!. Not true, a daughter needs to know her father!. Also, your dad, deep down , does care!. For your brother, calm him, talk to him like a friend, try to get him out of these habits before he is like your father!. Also, for your sister , make sure she feels like she is in a safe, happy place!. Be her mother if you have to!.
You are probably depressed because you feel everything is on your shoulders!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are probably depressed because you feel everything is on your shoulders!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
try to find some good friends and try to join a sport that you like, to get out the house more!. and if you get good friends, you can spend the night over thier house and having good friends wont make you depressed!. i hope i helped!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry about your situation , and I pray everything in your life brightens up for you!. You need to pray throughout your days !.Things will get better for you soon!. Take care, and God bless youWww@Answer-Health@Com
just beat up your brother once
stand up to your step-dad
protect your lil sis and cat
visit your dad at prison or wereva he is
and anti-depressants might helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
stand up to your step-dad
protect your lil sis and cat
visit your dad at prison or wereva he is
and anti-depressants might helpWww@Answer-Health@Com
you are depressed because of how your life has turned out, you need to speak to your school guidance counsellor about this and they will be able to help you!. trust me on this oneWww@Answer-Health@Com
bacause!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you need a dad to be completly happy maybeWww@Answer-Health@Com
I haven't fully read your question and I"m not planning on stating a solid response!. What I've read, you've been going under some serious hardship!. My advice is get some professional help!. Go to a psychiatrist, and tell her that your family is having trouble and you're worried because you're growing in a violent atmosphere!. They should send a social worker!. It might separate you, but hopefully it's for the best! Here, you'll just get bunch of opinions of why your depressed and it's obvious, how I mentioned before, you're living in a violent atmosphere which will make anyone depressed!. It will not help you fix it, Only you can! It troubles me to know this and I ask you to try to do something about it! Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First i'd like to say I'm really sorry about what's going on in your life right now and I hope my answer helps!. I think you should talk to a guidance counselor at your school and have some talks with your step dad and your real dad!. Try to stay away from your mother for a while because it's not cool that she tells your step dad about stuff you say about him!. It should be private and kept between the 2 of you!. As for your little brother try talking to him!. Ask him why he's so violent all the time!. If finally your on the verge of breaking down tell your mom that your going to live with another relative or very close friend until all the chaos dies down!. I hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sorry to hear of your problems and I wish I could help you out somehow!. Have you tried some websites like www!.teenhelp!.org or www!.1736familycrisiscenter!.org The second site has even a live chat with a counselor who knows more about these issues!. You can even call them at (310) 379-3620 and speak to someone directly!.
Hope all works out fine for you and your family!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hope all works out fine for you and your family!Www@Answer-Health@Com
this would be stinking hard, but you should call the police!.
your brother needs a really good counsler that's not going to ask a lot of dumb questions!. !. !.
and i think your mom needs to move somewhere else!.
that's a awful situation, but hang in there and get some PERSONAL help
someone you can see and talk toWww@Answer-Health@Com
your brother needs a really good counsler that's not going to ask a lot of dumb questions!. !. !.
and i think your mom needs to move somewhere else!.
that's a awful situation, but hang in there and get some PERSONAL help
someone you can see and talk toWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hi, i'm Alisa!. I'm going thru the same thing!. My parents are always fighting and i can't get them to stop!. Recently, i discovered dat i was considered depressed and emotionally unstable!. (I'm fifteen too!.) Last night I had a break down!. I was crying non-stop!. For no apparent reason!. I have no one to turn to!. I recommend you that you find a place in your mind or in reality where you can shut out all the pain and sadness!. I know you probably feel alone, but if you need someone to contact, i'm here!. God Bless u!.Www@Answer-Health@Com