Sex and mental health question?!
Question: Sex and mental health question!?
i a just looking for others with the same symptoms or experience!. if i have sex i usually have pain during it unless i have deviant thoughts and then i feel nauseous!. and as have weird thoughts during masturbation!. unless i think that way i don' "get off"!. this has been worrying me for years!. i try to not think about it but then i just don't have sex often (i'm married) so when i do have sex i am like a robot and going through the motions so i don't think the way i want to but then i have pain during it!. what is you opinion pleas!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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i am the same way!. i always have been!. sex is just so "unusual," ya know!? I am going to talk to my therapist about this!. I didn't have the chance because it was my first session last week!. I may be going on zoloft !.!.!.just have to set up an appointment with a primary care physician!. i don't really have any tips for you, i'm sorry!. i would go to your doctor though - as far as i'm told - it's unnatural!.
p!.s!. get out of the army!!!!!!!!!!!
i really hope things get better for you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
p!.s!. get out of the army!!!!!!!!!!!
i really hope things get better for you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You should see a doctor, and talk to your wife about it to!. It would be safe to say that you need a shrink, before you f**k up your marriage if it aint already!. You have some sick shi*t going on in your head, something has happened to you in your younger years, get yourself checked out man!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It really depends on what you call "deviant thoughts!." Are they violent thoughts!? Do you "act out" your thoughts!? Do the thoughts cause you to have any other problems!?
People are all different, with different needs, desires, and fantasies!. If you mean that your thoughts are not politically correct, well "Damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead!." If your thoughts are violent I would suggest you see a therapist!.
Do you become nauseous because you are repelled by your thoughts!? Or are you merely afraid that you might reveal them and you don't know how you would be received!? It makes a difference!.
You really do need to determine these issues before you decide to see a therapist!.
If the thoughts are violent, or you are really repelled by them then counseling may be in your best interest!. On the other hand there are all kinds of people into role playing to enhance their sexual experiences, from people in diapers to bondage and beyond!.
I don't understand the attraction some have to sadism & masochism but that is just too far out there for me!. That is the key issue, if what you think about doesn't hurt anyone and you enjoy sex much more, then who am I to tell you that it's wrong!? For me it might be wrong because I might not enjoy it, then again maybe I would!.
Your bedroom (or other locations) is not the place to allow others to tell you what is right or wrong!. If you don't hurt yourself or anyone else it is a matter for you to decide, not anyone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
People are all different, with different needs, desires, and fantasies!. If you mean that your thoughts are not politically correct, well "Damn the torpedoes and full speed ahead!." If your thoughts are violent I would suggest you see a therapist!.
Do you become nauseous because you are repelled by your thoughts!? Or are you merely afraid that you might reveal them and you don't know how you would be received!? It makes a difference!.
You really do need to determine these issues before you decide to see a therapist!.
If the thoughts are violent, or you are really repelled by them then counseling may be in your best interest!. On the other hand there are all kinds of people into role playing to enhance their sexual experiences, from people in diapers to bondage and beyond!.
I don't understand the attraction some have to sadism & masochism but that is just too far out there for me!. That is the key issue, if what you think about doesn't hurt anyone and you enjoy sex much more, then who am I to tell you that it's wrong!? For me it might be wrong because I might not enjoy it, then again maybe I would!.
Your bedroom (or other locations) is not the place to allow others to tell you what is right or wrong!. If you don't hurt yourself or anyone else it is a matter for you to decide, not anyone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com