Why do I push people away?!
Question: Why do I push people away!?
Whenever I get close to someone, wether it's a man, or friends or anything, I always push them away from me!.!.!. it hurts!. In the end I'm always lonely, I always screw everything up!.!.!. why!? Am I afraid of something in my subconcious!? How can I stop it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I do the same thing!. But in my case, I push them away because I'm afraid that they're going to reject me once they get to know me better!. I'm afraid that they're not going to think I'm as interesting as they assumed I was!. So in order to prevent myself from getting hurt by rejection, I push people away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am the same as your first answer!. I push people away because i feel once the get to know me they will end up rejecting me so i push them away first!. I think you should try to let people in as you are aware of it now it may be easier but if not then see you doctor and explain what it is doing to you, i did and i now see the community mental health team!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
I am not really sure alot of people push people away to see who really cares!.!.!.Try not to push people away!.!.!.I know its har but u jsut have to tryWww@Answer-Health@Com
I'm like that too!. It's like I can't help it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are not trying to get hurt agian if u have been hurt before!. Try to keep them closer see if that worksWww@Answer-Health@Com