I can't take it anymore. I want to die?!


Question: I can't take it anymore!. I want to die!?
I'm a high school senior and I want to die!. I can't say my life sucks, it's just everything is grinding me down!. Nowhere can I find anyone to support me!. I took my first two AP classes this year!. I just got the grades back!. I got a B and AP Stat and a C+ in AP Chem!. My parents then screamed at me for failing!. Suggesting that no college would accept me because I had a C+!. I have a 3!.3 unweighted GPA right now!.

Then my sister drains any energy from me!. Everyday i'm insulted with statements like your ugly, fat, or disgusting!. If I were to touch any surface, say the fridge, she would take cleaner and wipe it off before touching it!. She only does this after she sees me touch something!. Otherwise she is completely comfortable with touching something that I had not touched!. If I even glance at her I get screamed at!.

I pulled out of most of the clubs at my school to focus on work!. I just want support but I can't find it!. Now one cares how hard I work!. I'm a retard!. I have dyslexia and make stupid mistakes all the time!. I just can't take this existence!. And this won't stop once I get into college!. If I don't get into an Ivy school my parents will complain and make me apply for transfer until I get in!.

I can't do this anymore, I want to die, what can I doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Do not let the attitudes of others affect your attitude about you!.Your sister clearly has mental issues!.And to make up for it your parents are putting the pressure on you to be perfect to make up!.You need to stand up for yourself!.Tell your parents what your sister is doing to you and tell them you are doing the best that you can do!.Tell then that you love them just the way they are and you expect them to love you for who you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Everything feels worse when you are in high school!. Life is about meeting challenges and overcoming them!. There are people in the world who have a hard life: don't have a place to stay or food to eat and fight to stay alive!. Is there anyone you can trust that you can talk to!? Stay positive and stand up for yourself because you matter!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I understand!. i went through a similar situation this summer!.!.!. but I actually attempted suicide :P

im me or email me if you need more support!.

and hey, you're leaving to college the end of this year and have a good fifty more years of your life :) don't throw it all away so soon!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you got a b in AP stat!? thats freaking awesome!. i wish i could have made grades like that!. dont listen to what people say about you!. if you really are thinking about suicide you need to talk to someone!. a school councilor or a therapist!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

High school will be over in a few months !. Death is a bit extreme !.
When you graduate and turn 18 , you will legally be able to take over your own life if you want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its called bucking the **** up!.

Yell back at your sister!.

Tell her to shut the heII up and stop being such a BlTCH!.

Tell your parents to hop the heII of ur back!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to your parents they may not realize they are putting so much pressure on you your sister is probably just jealous because you sound smart just ignore her my uncle is dyslexia and he is very successful besides we all make stupid mistakes Www@Answer-Health@Com

Whoa whoa WHOA!! Listen, you are doing fine in school and the fact that your parents can't except anything that you do as a positive is absolutely NOT your fault! I'm so sorry your family treats you that way its obvious that they are the "retards", colleges will be fine with your GPA its above average and your trying your best under what can only be described as horrible circumstances!. I'm sure it will be hard but you have to try to concentrate on your work and not your family, they only bring you down (obviously), when they should be praising the fact that your doing as well as you are! Don't let their horrible parenting make you feel suicidal, it will get better once your in college!. Hopefully you will be able to move to school and get away from this negativity that surrounds you!. Good luck sweetie, hang in there!Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all , kiss your sister when she does that to you!. that will put her in her place!. if she does not want your wet kisses , she will stop doing those things to you!.
second!. it is your life!. do not try to please your parents!. your life is not about pleasing your parent!.
what ever you do , you do for yourself!. live only for your self!.
and only for Dr Burst!.so stay away from people that do not appreciate you!. find some peace within yourself!. and you will not need the support of others!. work on your own happiness!.
you can do it !. U DA MANWww@Answer-Health@Com

u r stupid!!!!!!!!! people like u r da reason why people use drugs becuz all u think about is me!. why you do suicide u go to hell if god wants u out of dis world he will take u away!. people tease me all da time i just fight back!. demi lovato got called fat and ugly all da time, but look at her now she is a disney channel star!. go ahead **** the rest of your lfie/ Www@Answer-Health@Com

believe it or not there are people with worse problems than you!.!. but your problems are your problems and they might seem worse than they really are, especially while you go through them!.

i personally would not begin to understand how you may be feeling right now, but its just never enough to seriously want to die!.

i wish i had a 3!.3 gpa in high school!. ap classes are hard, they are ap in the first place!. just dont take what they say into mind!. dont let your sister break you down!. (why would she be like that anyway!?) you will get into a very good college!. just do your best with what you got!. if you keep yourself happy, then you will be!. hard work shows the best results and at the end also builds a lot of character!. so get through this and you will be very happy with yourself!.

how about your friends!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your parents need to know that you are doing the best you can!.

And your sister!?
I don't know what's wrong with her!.
Can you avoid her as much as possible!?

Just try to block them out!.
Focus on one day at a time!.
I know that sounds cheesy!.

Think about succeeding for YOU, not for the parents!.

Because once you are on your own, you actually don't have to stay in contact with them, if they are that mean to you!.

Life begins again once you don't live with parents!.

Sure, they got you this far and took care of you, but if their attitude is like that, it might be better to keep your distance from them in your adult life!.

Is there a community college you can go to, to start with!?
Maybe you can focus more there, without as much pressure!?

All teens feel stuck and frustrated!.
Just some can hide it better!.

If you just get through the next year or so, it will be easier!.

And someday, you won't even remember these days much,
which is a good thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I sympathize with you, I know how it feels to go through a rough time!. It has been about 5 years since I graduated highschool, and believe me when I tell you that the people and things that tie into highschool are not as relevant to your happiness and success as you think it is!.
Sure, grades are important, but if you are doing the best you can you will be fine!. Who needs an Ivy college, except for those who enjoy a heavy workload and people breathing down their neck!? There are people out there that thrive under pressure, let them take the ivy colleges!. You will be FINE being in a normal college, with normal people!.
You are good to have a 3!.3 average, and you are good to want to go to college!. Let your parents nag your germaphobe sister!. You have a great GPA and great goals!.
I know so many dyslexic people who think they are stupid, and it doesn't make sense to me!. Dyslexia has NEVER been tied to a lower IQ, so don't you dare say you are stupid, ever again!.
Just take comfort in knowing that you will not feel this way, forever!. You will move out of your parents house once you graduate, and you will notice that you'll find a different family- your peers!.

i hope this helps!.
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dont die!. life is too short to waste on worrying about your sister or parents!. the point of life, to me, is to have fun!. do what you do!. do what you want to do!. if you want to go to an ivy league college, do it!. if you want to go to a community college, do it!. you need to get away from all the negative influences in your life!.!. just relax!. smoke some weed lol and and just calm down!. your only 17 or 18 years oldWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey there --

I'm really sorry that life is so difficult for you right now!. I can understand that things are getting you down!.

Your sister sounds like a major pain -- just ignore her!

You are doing the best you can in school and yeah, some parents aren't too cool with that!. But you know you are doing what you can!. Just think !.!.!. soon you will be out of the house and will be living to your own standards!.

Take care of yourself!. Maybe talk to a school counsellor!? Please DO NOT take your life over this!

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First of all don't kill yourself!. If you are in an abusive and unhappy family you can get guidance!. Also if you really don't get in to an ivy school you can go and find a college thats right or even better for you!. If the stress doesn't go away maybe you can find a safe haven like a bookstore or coffee shop where you can hang and do work instead of going home!. Overall no matter what happens just be positive and you can work through the grades and stress of being a seinor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell someone!.

It'll be hard, maybe even seem impossible, but you've got to just swallow your pride and ask for help!.

I'm a senior in high school as well, and I know it can be hard, especially those AP classes, but sometimes you've just gotta bite the bullet and tough it out, it WILL get better, and talking to people will make it easier!.

Your family really does care about you, but how are they supposed to know how you're feeling if you don't tell them!.

And no, you're not a retard!. You're taking 2 AP classes, and devoting your time to getting good grades, only the intelligent do that!.

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If you can talk to your parents, one or both, tell them how you feel!. If you can't talk to them comfortably, tell them you'd like to see a counselor or a mental health therapist!. Try to ignore your sister for now; she'll probably outgrow her current immature behavior!. You're doing better than average in school!. Don't let anyone else make you feel bad about that!. I find that exercise 3-4 times a week improves my mood a lot!. Shoot me an email if you want!. Good luck!. You're doing better than you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't kill yourself!. Your sister may be a jerk and your parents may yell at you a lot but dont kill yourself!. Think about it it's already November and once college rolls around you can go live in a dorm!. Or if you want talk to your school counselor!. After you move out you wont have to see or speak to your parents!. Maybe try to talk to your parents and sister, tell them what your thinking!. Im sure thta your parents love you and they will try to help you, just don't kill yourself, your life can only get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please, dont ever start thinking that you want to die! trust me i've been there,and it's not worth it, what helped me is talking to my best friend about it and she really helped me a lot! but dont start thinking that your stupid or want to die, because low self-esteem, isn't good!. just try to talk to somebody that you can trust, and that you are close to!. if your close to your parents then its the best choice to talk to them, but if your not close and you think that they wouldn't understand then try a friend! seriously it helps letting it all out, and getting advise from others!. hope this helps! : ]Www@Answer-Health@Com

I dont think you want to die!. From what you are saying it seems you are over-stressed!. Being a high school senior snd worried about college applictions is pretty much the norm!. Your sister souds bratty anbd she knows how to push your buttons!. If you let her get to you she will!. In this letter I see no signs of dyslexia and a retard couldnt hold down a 3!.3 GPA!. Relax and dont over stress yourself!. Look for ward to college because yourr problems will at least be different ones!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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