Would you want to die if;?!
Question: Would you want to die if;!?
you were bullied, mentally and physically through primary school!. Never had any real freinds, told that you were to blame for all the social problems and would never amount to anything in life (both teachers and others)!.
In high school, much the same happens to!. Only this time girls avoid you, never get any real chances at playing sport- cause you were good at any sport!. For the High School formal you go alone as no girls wanted to go with you!. All the way along your developing social anxiety and very low self-esteem!.
You finished high school but couldnt get into uni directly and had to go to a technical colledge to do an advanced dipoma in electrical engineering first!. During that time you work in menial jobs like kmart as shelf packer/ dishwasher etc!.!. Girls continue to reject you for any relationships and only talk to you if they are "forced" to at work or studies!. Mean time your other peers are either finished trads, almost finished uni and have/ had 1 or more relationships with girls!.
Finally you get into you and have much the same continue, girls rejecting you, unless that have to interact with you!. Your family life falls apart with parents trying to physically hurt each other in back ground!. Almost get kicked out of uni, but still manage to finish at 26 yrs old, only to not be able to secure emplyment in the field you studied for!. Have been diagnosed with server depression and social anxiety!. At this stage most of your peers are in high paid jobs( senior business analysts, senior accountants, teachers, registered nurses, physiotheraptist, engineers, other medical professions etc!.!.) some with families of their own, and have their own houses/units!. Yet you still get rejected by girls and have to work the same menial jobs!. At this stage you feel completely inferior and worthless and everything in life becomes just another road block in life!.
If you had somthing like this happen to you would you want to die/ suicide!?
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In high school, much the same happens to!. Only this time girls avoid you, never get any real chances at playing sport- cause you were good at any sport!. For the High School formal you go alone as no girls wanted to go with you!. All the way along your developing social anxiety and very low self-esteem!.
You finished high school but couldnt get into uni directly and had to go to a technical colledge to do an advanced dipoma in electrical engineering first!. During that time you work in menial jobs like kmart as shelf packer/ dishwasher etc!.!. Girls continue to reject you for any relationships and only talk to you if they are "forced" to at work or studies!. Mean time your other peers are either finished trads, almost finished uni and have/ had 1 or more relationships with girls!.
Finally you get into you and have much the same continue, girls rejecting you, unless that have to interact with you!. Your family life falls apart with parents trying to physically hurt each other in back ground!. Almost get kicked out of uni, but still manage to finish at 26 yrs old, only to not be able to secure emplyment in the field you studied for!. Have been diagnosed with server depression and social anxiety!. At this stage most of your peers are in high paid jobs( senior business analysts, senior accountants, teachers, registered nurses, physiotheraptist, engineers, other medical professions etc!.!.) some with families of their own, and have their own houses/units!. Yet you still get rejected by girls and have to work the same menial jobs!. At this stage you feel completely inferior and worthless and everything in life becomes just another road block in life!.
If you had somthing like this happen to you would you want to die/ suicide!?
nb: yes that is a short snap shot of my life!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
No I would not want to die!. What I would want is a change!.
If I were you I would stop comparing myself to my peers!. There is no point in it and no matter how hard you try to succeed in life the simple fact is there are always going to be people who have better careers/relationships/cars etc!. than you!. So stop thinking about them and start thinking about you!.
Dwelling on the past will get you nowhere!. You will find that the majority of people have had some kind of traumatic experience during their childhood/teen years!. Also some of these 'menial' jobs you desrcibe are also some of the most important jobs if you think about it, and at the very least I'm sure it has taught you about life more than having someone else pay your way through life while you were at college!.
You have in no way had an easy life but I wouldn't say you've had a terrible one either!.
Think about what YOU want out of life!. What is it you truly want!? Have a long hard think about it and once you've figured it out start making small goals and working towards them!. Eventually it will all fall into place and you will be happy again!. Only you can do this though and don't put it off!. Start now!. You CAN do this!.
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If I were you I would stop comparing myself to my peers!. There is no point in it and no matter how hard you try to succeed in life the simple fact is there are always going to be people who have better careers/relationships/cars etc!. than you!. So stop thinking about them and start thinking about you!.
Dwelling on the past will get you nowhere!. You will find that the majority of people have had some kind of traumatic experience during their childhood/teen years!. Also some of these 'menial' jobs you desrcibe are also some of the most important jobs if you think about it, and at the very least I'm sure it has taught you about life more than having someone else pay your way through life while you were at college!.
You have in no way had an easy life but I wouldn't say you've had a terrible one either!.
Think about what YOU want out of life!. What is it you truly want!? Have a long hard think about it and once you've figured it out start making small goals and working towards them!. Eventually it will all fall into place and you will be happy again!. Only you can do this though and don't put it off!. Start now!. You CAN do this!.
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yes, i would really want to die!. and i'm not saying that to make you feel better, i'm saying the truth!. but maybe, life isn't so good cause it's gonna get really good for you in the long run!. keep your head high, and keep going strong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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menial jobs !? I 've worked on a process line for years and actually enjoyed my job!. You just need to learn living on less and budgeting which can keep you really busy!. I also obtained a fork lift licence as there were opportunities for this type of employment and I enjoyed using machinery!. Re partner they were hard if not impossible to find and I continue to exist on my own!. There are just lots of interesting and necessary things that one needs to do!. Suicide does not sound like an interesting option!. My ex used this option and he just looked cold and even more unloved but he succeeded in making me weep ! Get out and do ------force yourself and perhaps in spite of yourself you may find some enjoyment!. It does not take much so make an effort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are depressed and angry!. It's hard to have friends when you are not the happiest person there!. You don't have to be unhappy or sad!.
You can be happy but you have to stop comparing yourself with everybody else!. The only person you have to impress is You, but don't even worry about that!. Just enjoy your life and celebrate being alive!.
There is much more to life than money, there is happiness, find that and you will be envied!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can be happy but you have to stop comparing yourself with everybody else!. The only person you have to impress is You, but don't even worry about that!. Just enjoy your life and celebrate being alive!.
There is much more to life than money, there is happiness, find that and you will be envied!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
uhmm it sounds really bad but if i were u i would go to bed at nite praying that things would get better and no tat i would meet tat special some-one tat wouldnt care about how my life is shed just like me for who i was!.!.!. P!.S!. same thing happening here except being bullied physically, im at the highschool part and no one likes me!.!.!. Just follow me and pray and have some HOPE!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com