Why am i sad over such a stupid thing?!


Question: Why am i sad over such a stupid thing!?
for the past 2 weeks i was convienced my bf was giving me a ring for xmas!. he never gave me any signs or anything but my crazy thoughts lead me to believe he was!.!. Then when we went to the mall and I saw that the ring I want which is extremely cheap right now was still there I realized thats not what he was getting me!.!.
I had such confidence all week about myself and now that I know im not getting that i feel depressed and my confidence has went back down!.!.

Why is this!?!? anything i can do to make myself feel better!?
I know we are getting married when we are 25 but i want the engagement part now!.!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Its because you had expectations!.!.!.this can be something that you allow to torment you your entire life!. The only things you can TRUST (for real) are things that are attached to your body!.!.!.you can't trust others to understand, feel the same as you do, etc!.!.!.!.only trust you and your feelings!. Its ok to be disappointed, but don't be sad!. If this is meant to be, it will be!. Apparently, your friend is not ready yet!. It sounds like your young and I can relate, but truly hold on!. You two should be living life to the fullest!.!.!.a ring doesn't determine your intent to get married, your heart and actions do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sometimes there's more than one ring like the one you want, and if he possibly bought it, they would have replaced it with another one!. either that or maybe your bf hasn't bought it yet!. just relax, worrying about something that's more than a month away is just going to stress you out!. try not to think about it at all!. if he wants to surprise you, he's gonna make you think he didn't by it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Perhaps he is waiting until he can afford to buy you the ring he wants to give you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because your Stupid!.


haha sorry I couldn't help myself!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

just because the ring is still at the store, doesn't necessarily mean he didnt buy it for you!. I used to work in retail, and once someone buys something that's on display, its common practice to put another of the exact one back in the display case to fill its place - - otherwise, display cases would alwyas be empty, if they were never refilled after people bought them! I'm assuming, after all, that the ring is not one of a kind if it is on display at a mall jewelry store!.!.!.!.

But, the deeper problem is you being so upset by the possibility that this isn't what happened!. You are right in that it is a stupid thing to be sad over!. I am so tired of seeing girls and women who rely on proposals and signs of affection from men to be happy!. It gives other, strong and independent women a bad name!. I think its rediculous that girls are constantly in such a rush to be married and have a man tied down!. For Christ's sake, you aren't even 25 yet!. you have the rest of your life to be married (& most likely divorced for getting married so young)!.!.!.You need to find something in life that YOU can do on your OWN that will make you happy!. Try to succeed at a career, and educate yourself!. Save up money so you can buy your own house someday!. It's pathetic that you are this affected by whether or not you are getting a ring!. You should be confident and happy for just being you!.!.!.whether or not you have a boyfriend, fiance or husband at all!. It should only be an added bonus knowing that someone wants to spend their life with you!.

Afterall, if he didnt buy the ring for you, doenst that signify that he doesnt want to get married yet or has doubts!? do you really want to spend a life with someone that doesnt really want to be there, do you want to pressure someone into a marriage that they don't really want!. Ill tell you it would never last!. He has to want it too!. And what is the satisfaction of getting a ring from him if its only because you convinced him to buy it!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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