How to cope / handle this?!
Question: How to cope / handle this!?
I am a SAHM with a 3 year old and a 6 week old!. here's my situation!. I am 22!. I started working at 16 and never went more than a week without a job till I had my first boy!. Went back to work after he was 1 year old!. held that job for 6 months before I left my fiance!. came back to him 3 months later, got pregnant again and now i have the second little one!.
I'm bi-polar!. I have no outside contact except for the cashiers when I go grocery shopping!. I have no friends, and my family isnt really around!. I'm the independant type!. I HATE being supported!. i'm going out of my mind not being able to work!.
So, being a SAHM, i'm expected to have the house clean, laundry done, keep the kids happy, feed everyone, and oh yea, do this on 3 hours of sleep!. i'm over done!. i cant take it anymore!. i flipped out and well my living room has a couple new holes in the walls, chairs all over the place!.!.I just lost it!. I cant handle this life anymore and want out!. how do you cope with that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm bi-polar!. I have no outside contact except for the cashiers when I go grocery shopping!. I have no friends, and my family isnt really around!. I'm the independant type!. I HATE being supported!. i'm going out of my mind not being able to work!.
So, being a SAHM, i'm expected to have the house clean, laundry done, keep the kids happy, feed everyone, and oh yea, do this on 3 hours of sleep!. i'm over done!. i cant take it anymore!. i flipped out and well my living room has a couple new holes in the walls, chairs all over the place!.!.I just lost it!. I cant handle this life anymore and want out!. how do you cope with that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
what about the kids father!. doenst he help!. just keep busting your a-- off and try to take as much time out to relax whenever possable!. hope you feel better soonWww@Answer-Health@Com
You are 22 with two small children, you choose to have children!. It is time to grow up, and accept that responsibility!. You may want to check in with a local church that offers low cost or free babysitting for a mother morning our!. Get some friends!. Get a hobby!. Find other mothers that you can hang out with !.!.with the kids!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound stressed out!. Can you see your doctor!?
I don't know what SAHM is!.!.
Can you talk to your fiancee!?
Being bipolar, are you in treatment!? is there a support group you can find in your area to go to!? to get you out the house!? Your doctor should have details or search google as bipolar charities often have groups!. If you could go to a support group you can meet people, even if its only once a month!. Get your fiancee to take care of the kids for the night!. Its the least he could do!!! I hate it when guys dont think the mothers of there children dont deserve a night off!.
You need to take care of you!. You could get ill again if you dont treat this stress your suffering from!.
HugsWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't know what SAHM is!.!.
Can you talk to your fiancee!?
Being bipolar, are you in treatment!? is there a support group you can find in your area to go to!? to get you out the house!? Your doctor should have details or search google as bipolar charities often have groups!. If you could go to a support group you can meet people, even if its only once a month!. Get your fiancee to take care of the kids for the night!. Its the least he could do!!! I hate it when guys dont think the mothers of there children dont deserve a night off!.
You need to take care of you!. You could get ill again if you dont treat this stress your suffering from!.
HugsWww@Answer-Health@Com