How many of you are more afraid of getting old then of dieing?!


Question: How many of you are more afraid of getting old then of dieing!?
Getting old scares the crap out of me!. I think about it everyday!. I'm 43, and I hope I die before I am 55!. I obsess about it all the time!. I sometimes think that if I could find the right woman that it would make me feel better about growing old!. I have known plenty of women in my lifetime, but I haven't found the woman I want to grow old with!. I have lived with this fear my whole life!. I use to tell myself that I wanted to die before I was 40!. I've looked death in the eyes many times, but here I am!. Are there more people out there that feel the same way!? I'm not suicidal, I just don't want to be an old man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I can kind of see where you are coming from but dying young is more scary than getting old and then dying!. It's never too late to meet the right woman while you are alive!. Live life to the full, you still have lots to do yet before you get old and die eg watching your kids grow up and getting to see your grandchidren etc!. It has to be worth getting old to see all that hasn't it!. You look like a handsome chap in the pics I have seen of you so at least you won't be an ugly old man and you will always appeal to the ladies lol!. Life is too short, worry about being too old when you cross that bridge!. Enjoy life while you are still able to thats all you can really do!. :-)
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It is scary that's for sure but you're not old now and won't be old for a long time so enjoy it, otherwise when you are old you'll look back on all those years living in fear and it's a waste!. Maybe try doing some charity work or volunteering as it helps to put things in perpective and to realise what you've got!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 21, and I am terrified of reaching 30- i really just don't want to change!. I hate change, and I hate what my body might become!. Im totally with you on this one!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well then go find some single women, preferably friends then!. But being obsessed thinking of dying, then live your life to the fullest!. Do the things you want!. Then die in peace!. That sounded so wrong :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

no i don't feel the same way because i'm going to Heaven when i die!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

whats wrong with dying, go to hell, go to heaven or it all goes black!. easy :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Gee, thanks!. I'm 56! I shall go jump off a building now!. Bye!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Getting "old" has lots of benefits!. You become much less self concious, you lose your inhibitions to talk to strangers in queues, you can walk into rooms without caring if people look at you!. You care less and less if people laugh at you!. You become quite comfortable with yourself and feel less and less the need to make excuses for who you are and what you do!. You become closer to young people and are able to have more fun with your grandchildren than you did with your own kids etc etc!. I am 63 and enjoying it!. I still work full time as an engineer Offshore in the North Sea Oil & Gas industry putting in 12 hour shifts for weeks at a time!. I don't intend to slow down for many years yet!. Just go out there and enjoy your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My deceased husband was just like you!. He went to find his youth, by running around with younger women, doing drugs and lifting weights!. But he was miserable and was killed by a drunk driver!. Hey, I am 61 years young and am having a wonderful life!. Age is just a number!. You are really as old as you feel!. I am dating someone that is 11 years younger than me and am having a blast!. I am not afraid to die but neither do I want to die!. I am having too much fun!. It is all about accepting yourself and waking up every morning with a vow to have a great day!. Also, count your blessings!. Reflect on all that is good in your life and find something important to you to make you want to continue in this life!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Getting old is better than not getting old but if you can't take the waiting good byeWww@Answer-Health@Com





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