Did I change because of I went/am going through?!
Question: Did I change because of I went/am going through!?
Me, my dad and my mom came to America at the end of May in 2003 to visit my brother for 6 months!. We overstayed and we're here illegally!. At this point, my dad and my mom are together and they're fine!. I finished 3rd grade in my country (Czech Republic) So I started 4th grade here!. In 4th grade, I didn't speak English so I didn't mess around that much!. But in 5th and 6th grade, I used to mess around and be talkative!. I still had A's and B's tho!. There was never a point in my life where I ended up with bad grades at the end of the year ever!. By the middle of 6th grade, my mom stopped working with my dad!. I think it was like 2005 or 2006 when that happened!. I was still like 10 or 11!. Since then my dad had to pay for everything!. So I figured hey everythin is okay!. But as time passed, my dad complained and my parents fought!. Then I realized, man I'm in a bad situation here!. My parents are fighting, I'm here ilegally!.!.!.I'm screwed!. So in the middle of 6th grade, I just changed!. I stopped talking!. I stopped messing around!. I just did my work and I was quiet!. I've been like that since this day, and now I'm 14 and a freshmen!. To be honest, I like myself better when messing around and talking!. When I'm quiet, I think way too much and I care what other ppl think about me!. But thats nothing!. You might say "Ahh your parents are fighting big deal!." No, no, every year it gets worse!. This year, my mom ends being in the garage!. My brother had to move in with us to help my dad pay the rent!. My mom being in the garage is a whole another story!. My brother just hates her!. She sleeps in the apartment but during the day shes in the garage or somewhere else!. It was her choice!. She has been doing nothing for 4 years!. Don't tell me to talk to her, I tried on multiple occassions!. NOTHING! She won't go back to work!. It's been 4 years, she won't change her mind now!. Anyway, my life is a piece of crap!. I just wanna know if what I went and am going through changed me because nobody can just change 1 day in the middle of 6th grade!. What do you guys think!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Yes it can change you, Im 18 and I kinda had the same problem with worrying about my parents and rent and fighting!. what I think you should do is talk with a councilor someone you can talk to you so you don't stress out one day and freak, that's what happened to me I have constant panic and anxiety attacks!. I hate it and it's all because I bottled up my feelings and worried about everyone else but myself!.
Good Luck <---- yes stress can so change a person! take care of your self, then worry about others!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck <---- yes stress can so change a person! take care of your self, then worry about others!Www@Answer-Health@Com