Is it normal to want to be quiet and introverted and left alone?!
Question: Is it normal to want to be quiet and introverted and left alone!?
right now i am in a place in my life where my only goal is to finish college and move away from this town that i hate!. i regret the day i ever stepped foot here, but i cant go til i finish!. anyway i am in a place where i just want a job where i work by myself and dont have to deal with being fake nice to people, i just want to spend time with the simple things i enjoy doing, i dont have any friends right now, i recently cut negative people out of my life and i am not looking to meet or make friends with people anytime soon!. is that normal!? i want to wrok in a library or something where i can just go to work and come home and do things i really like, like music and reading!. people think you are weird when you are quiet but i am not quiet i just dont fit in, and i dont mind fitting in, but it causes problems, because people dont leave you alone, they dont understand it and it makes them upset!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It's not weird that's for sure!. you did the right thing cutting negative people out of your life, but eventually you may get lonely, or you may not!. you certainly aren't crazy, you're probably just tired of the human race in general!. it's fine to spend time alone, there's nothing wrong with wanting that, but like i said, eventually you may get lonely and so in preparation for that time, don't be unfriendly to strangers and at least be polite so as not to cut off all your ties and possible friendships!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Unusual but not a big deal!. 2 of my 4 kids would rather sit home and play on their PC then try to make friends and go out and do something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is nothing wrong with wanting to live your life as you see fit!. If reading and music are what you enjoy, there's no reason you need to be a social butterfly!. However, as comforting as solitude may be, even introverts get lonely!. You don't mind "not fitting in" at this time but tomorrow or next month or next year may be different!. You're stressed with school and such, but that is not going to last forever!. Its worth the effort to find a healthy balance between social and alone time because we all have days where we need a friend!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Welcome to my world! I love my peace and quiet! I go to work, a very noisy place!, and when I get home I just want to sit down and relax with a good book and a cup of my favorite coffee and pet the dog and cat!. I don't go anywhere or do anything!. When I do get bored I get on here for a little while or paint or crochet or sew!. I don't have many friends either and I'm happy with my life just the way it is! So even if we are weird it's our life and we deserve to be happy! So enjoy your life just as you want and don't worry about what anybody thinks of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
omg!.!.!.!.!.you are definitely not alone, i'm feel like i'm at that time in my life!. Im 20 years old in college and agree with you when not wanting to be fake to anyone!. It is normal to want to be quiet and left alone, some people can actually live like this for up to a year or two yet i do recommend when you are ready to let people in, choose the right people to whom you can be your true self and not feel fake for we can't live our lives all alone all the time!. We have to enjoy it for we only have 1 to live!.Www@Answer-Health@Com