How do I let go of my ex gf?!
Question: How do I let go of my ex gf!?
I was in a relationship for 2 years and I think that I was controlling!. She was controlling as well!.
We broke up 2 months ago, and I've come from being super super rollercoaster moods to ok most of the time!.
When I call her I always get this bad feeling that she's with someone else (even though she tells me she's not, and I know I can trust her)!. I also feel like I should help her with her life!.!.!. she is depressed as well!.
I sometimes feel like as we grow apart we grow more together!. I don't want to get back together for compatibility reasons but I am really pulled that way when we talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
We broke up 2 months ago, and I've come from being super super rollercoaster moods to ok most of the time!.
When I call her I always get this bad feeling that she's with someone else (even though she tells me she's not, and I know I can trust her)!. I also feel like I should help her with her life!.!.!. she is depressed as well!.
I sometimes feel like as we grow apart we grow more together!. I don't want to get back together for compatibility reasons but I am really pulled that way when we talk!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Not to say that I know what you're feeling but I was in a situation similar to this!. I was going out with this guy for quite awhile and he proposed to me so we decided to get engaged and then everything started going downhill!. He would just leave without telling me and we were living together!. Its like I only interested him on his own time!. I started to not trust him but i still cared for him and I didnt have the strength to leave him!. Then i met someone new and he treated me how a women should be treated!. But even after meeting somone alot better i couldnt leave my boyfriend even though all he did was control n use me cuz I have a problem trying to make everyone happy even if that means not being happy myself!. But then i realized don't do whats going to make someone happy that has no consideration for you!.!.!.he will eventually learn !.!.!.i said that i was going to make myself happy for a change!. So i told him that i was leaving him unless he changed his ways and he did for about two weeks!. So when he went back to his same old self i left and he told me he was gonna kill himself!.!.!.and that pulled me back yet again!.!.!.but i told him im not gonna be with someone whos gonna put guilt on me that way!.!.!.!.and i left him for good!.!.!.and now hes happy and healthy and alot better off without me and without the control he had over me!.
Just make yourself happy for once then worry about others!. They will find their own way!.!.!.what kills us only makes us strongerWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just make yourself happy for once then worry about others!. They will find their own way!.!.!.what kills us only makes us strongerWww@Answer-Health@Com
So become her best friend!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
STOP calling herWww@Answer-Health@Com
yeah man if you dont want to be with her then dont talk to her, my girl left me and we were also together for 2 years i wont get into my business but i want her back so much but she doesnt want me you just have to be strong and let her goWww@Answer-Health@Com