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Question: Please help ! !.!.!.!. thank you!?
im 16 and i no i have my whole life ahead of me, but quite honestly i don't no right now how i can find the strength to carry on!.
how do you find the ability to carry on when you feel theres no point !?
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I try and do something that makes me feel good and hope that i'll have many more times like that in my life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Everyday people face challenges, sometimes more than others!. The main thing I do when the going gets tough is to remember that tomorrow is a new day and life can change very quickly!. The other thing I try and remember is that just because today has "no point" that tomorrow might, I might be able to help someone, give something of myself to another in need, or just be there for a friend who needs someone to talk to!. So while there may not be a point for me, there is a purpose and a point overall so I just need to keep going, even when times are tough!.

Hope that helps and Good Luck!
Adam-OWww@Answer-Health@Com

please don't be talking about suicide!.
suicide is bad!. a huge no-no!.
you should just keep telling yourself that the rest of your life is something to look forward to, and all numbers of unknown surprises await you, and great things can, and will, happen to you!.
of course, there will be some rough patches in your life, but the most important thing is learning how to find the strength to carry on forward towards the next great experience!.
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everyone has those times when things just seem to not be going your way but just try to think about the good things that you have, family friends!. try to work at something like find something that you like to do and have that to work at and get better at that way you have something to keep you going like does that make sense that way you have something to works towards like a goal or something!. that will maybe help you to feel better about yourself and maybe that will change your attitue about life!. good luck though!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Most 16 year olds feel the same way that you do at some point in time!. Try to look forward to your future more!.!.!.make plans and goals that you can start working toward achieving!. Go to church, pray to God for strength, trust me, that's the best way!.
I know that this is weird, but when I start feeling sorry for myself, I start reading about how people lived during like the Great Depression, or about how the Jews, and others, lived that were affected by the Holocaust!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hun, everybody has been there!. You have to think of what you want out of your life!.!.!.!.!.what do you want to go to school for, do you want to be a mother, do you want to travel!? Set goals for yourself, give yourself something to look foward to!. Think of how lucky you are, when times get so tough, think of the people who can't afford a computer, that don't have a roof over there head, that don't have their health, or unfortunate to not be here anymore!. The teen years are the hardest to get through!.!.!.and I promise you the 20's get so much better! Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

When you feel like things are getting tough,you can pray number one!. And just talk to someone you trust,whether it is a close friend or family member,just someone who will listen and be honest with you!. Things get worse before they can get better,always remember that!. You have to suffer through the pain before you can be happy!. Sometimes things are only bad because we "think" they are bad!. You are just a strong as anyone else and you shouldn't let one little mess up ruin your feelings towards life!. I really hope this helped,if you need anything,feel free to message me!. Good luck,and remember you are here on this earth for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The teen years are really difficult and lots of mature happy adults have felt exactly like you are feeling now!. There is light at the end of the tunnel but really you need to chat to someone about how you are feeling at the moment!. Don't struggle on alone!. Make an appointment to see your doctor and he will help you through this time!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't become another statistic!. Don't be known as 'the girl who killed herself at 16'!. When people think of you, don't let them think 'she was just another poor suicidal kid!.' Do something that makes you happy, maybe get involved in something!. Spend lots of time with family or friends, get support from them!. You can also get support from a professional if it's that bad!. Try loving yourself, and know you're too good to kill yourself!.
hope it helps somewhat!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey im 16 too i no where your coming from i pretty much hate life too sometimes but you know what u have to go on just keep going its worth it trust me i feel like i dnt wanna go on sometimes but think about all the good stuff thats happened to you and about all the good stuff thats going to happen to you cuz ur a good person and u deserve a great life!. dont give up keep going onWww@Answer-Health@Com

I imagine myself from someone else's view!. They are just being themselves, and then they look at me, and see that I want to end it all, and they're just like "Wow, what a stupid person, there's no point in their stupid issues!."

Imagine your situation, in third person!. Look upon yourself, you'll realise you are being completely stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i have tht same feeling an im only 13 i wish sometime my life should be over but when i think about my parents and my family i dunt think my life should be over and i should carry on in my life for them at the very least i mean what would my famly do with out me!?how would they feel !?i hope you found this useful and that understand my feelingsWww@Answer-Health@Com

I have seen you asking a suicidal question tonight once and i'm concerned for you!. I think that you should tell your parents that you want to die!. They will finally take you seriously and help you find some real help!. You probably have a chemical imbalance in your brain and some medication and couseling can help you get through this **** hole worldWww@Answer-Health@Com

i to am 16 and i get majorly depressed!. I am not sure how i carry on i just do, i am massively over loaded with homework and feel like there is no point in living!. the best thing i can say is to just keep going and see where life takes you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need Jesus! He makes all things worth while!. The Joy of the Lord is your strength!. You will find peace in the Bible! Pray and ask God to help you through whatever you are going through!. Get an NIV bible and read in John; after Luke but before Acts!. God will direct your steps!. Just open your heart to Him!
God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com

Give yourself a makeover and put your best face forward!. Do something that made you feel good in the past!. You need to know that everyone is down in thier life at one point or another!. Write down all of your positive attributes and keep your head up up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

List out everything good about your life,
Things you want to do in the future,
And things you have to look forward too!.
And maybe read about people less fortunate than yourself!.
And always rely on your friends for advice :)

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Accepting, rather than resisting life, is probably the best way to possibly live!.

Unless of course, you're like most people!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ive been there, there is a bright light under the tunnel you've just got to think about the people around you who love you!. Keep going try talking to someone theres plenty of help out there!. keep your chin up !.xWww@Answer-Health@Com

think positive! be around positive ppl! write a journal on what you want to be and how you can become that person!.!.!. best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to my family and friends, find activities to do, look at the positives in life!Www@Answer-Health@Com

It won't be long now and you will meet the man of your dreams and have a family of your own!. You will realize then how silly your thoughts are now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Find something to live for!. A hobby!. Anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

flood your system with life; exercise, walk go to the animal shelter and volunteer or a hospital even Fake it till u make it u will gain fulfillment through helping others
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im 15 and im the same way surround yourself with good friends participate in school activities and just try to have fun it will turn around for uWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just look at the good things in life, and remember things will always get better!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

well you r 16 drive around get a cool job make some money go get ur freinds and hang out with emmm always thingpossitive and think of the glass half full not half emptyWww@Answer-Health@Com

You got it made hon!You really don't know about life til after high school!.It really dose get better!Www@Answer-Health@Com

bibleWww@Answer-Health@Com

i felt like tht many times i just took time off school hung out with friends more and was more active it helped me outWww@Answer-Health@Com

Check yourself OUT!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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